Lola Jean

"Vulnerability is the cornerstone of authentic sexual exploration"—this core belief has guided Lola Jean throughout her journey from curious explorer to internationally recognized sex educator and professional dominatrix. Based in New York City, Lola has made it her mission to demystify practices that many find intimidating, from squirting to wrestling, pegging to bondage.

What sets Lola apart is her refreshingly practical approach. Unlike educators who keep things theoretical, she's in the trenches (sometimes literally—she holds the world record for volume squirting!). As co-creator of the "Wrestling for Lovers" program, she's trained over 500 couples to transform physical play into deeper connection, using her signature "Baby Bear Play" framework that balances aggression with tenderness.

Lola's expertise has been sought by The New York Times, Vice, Men's Health, and even Netflix's research team for "Sex Education." But what she's most proud of is developing methods that actually work in real bedrooms. Her trauma-informed negotiation frameworks and "Intel-Based Trash Talk" technique have revolutionized how couples communicate desires that might otherwise feel uncomfortable to express.

In her Beducated courses, Lola cuts through the noise with her "no frills" approach to topics like safe breath play, squirting, pegging, and body bondage. Each lesson combines technical expertise with emotional intelligence, helping you not just master physical techniques but also navigate the vulnerability that comes with sexual exploration. Whether you're curious about hearing—or saying—"no" with grace, or want to discover how wrestling can transform into mind-blowing foreplay, Lola guides you with the perfect balance of authority and playfulness.

Ready to explore pleasure beyond boundaries you thought were fixed? Join the thousands of students across 40+ countries who've discovered new dimensions of intimacy through Lola's uniquely empowering approach. Your journey to more authentic, adventurous pleasure starts here.