About This Course
Your Struggles, Solved
Pegging can unlock incredible pleasure and intimacy, yet many couples avoid exploring it due to fears, misconceptions, and lack of practical guidance.
You're likely facing:
- Fear of Pain or Discomfort - Without proper techniques and preparation, many worry that anal penetration will inevitably hurt or be uncomfortable.
- Uncertainty About Proper Equipment - Choosing the right harness, dildo size, and essential accessories can feel overwhelming for beginners.
- Communication Awkwardness - Many struggle to express desires, set boundaries, or discuss pegging openly with their partner.
This course teaches you step-by-step preparation techniques and practical skills for comfortable, pleasurable pegging experiences. You'll learn how to communicate desires confidently, select appropriate equipment, and master techniques that prioritize both partners' comfort and pleasure. These trauma-informed approaches help transform pegging from intimidating to intimately rewarding.
What You Will Learn
"Pegging creates a beautiful vulnerability exchange, allowing you and your partner to explore new dimensions of pleasure, intimacy, and trust together."
— Lola Jean, Sexuality Educator
Comfort & Safety Fundamentals
- Preparation Techniques - Master step-by-step relaxation and hygiene practices that ensure comfort and eliminate pain during anal penetration.
- Proper Lubrication Methods - Learn which lubricants work best for pegging and how to apply them correctly to enhance pleasure and prevent discomfort.
Equipment Selection & Setup
- Harness & Dildo Fitting - Discover how to select the ideal harness style and dildo size for your body type and experience level.
- Essential Accessories - Identify the must-have items that enhance your pegging experience from preparation through clean-up.
Communication & Connection
- Boundary Conversations - Practice expressing desires, limits, and feedback before, during, and after pegging encounters with confidence.
- Role Dynamics - Explore the emotional aspects of giving and receiving, creating deeper intimacy through this unique power exchange.
By the end of this course, you'll confidently navigate pegging experiences that prioritize both partners' pleasure, creating intimate encounters free from pain, awkwardness, or uncertainty.
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Lessons and Classes
- 1. What Is Pegging
- 2. Common Pegging Fears & Expectations
- 3. Tools & Preparation
- 4. Hand Play
- 5. Penetration
- 6. Aftercare
- 7. All Your Pegging Questions Answered
- 8. How Do I Get My Partner Interested In a Kink
- 9. What to Do With My Hands During Pegging
- 10. Is Anal Play Enjoyable for People With Vulvas
Your Instructor
Lola Jean
Sex Educator & Dominatrix
Lola Jean is a renowned sex educator and professional dominatrix specializing in pegging and intimate power exchange dynamics. Based in New York City, she has developed practical, trauma-informed techniques for anal exploration that have been recognized by publications like The New York Times, Vice, and Men's Health, bringing her expertise from the dungeon to your bedroom.
Lola discovered through her own explorations that vulnerability truly is the cornerstone of authentic sexual experiences. She noticed how common fears and misconceptions were preventing couples from experiencing the incredible pleasure potential of pegging. This realization inspired her "no frills" approach—demystifying intimidating practices by combining technical expertise with emotional intelligence, helping countless couples discover new dimensions of intimacy and pleasure.
Lola's teaching philosophy centers on balancing technical precision with emotional awareness. She goes beyond theoretical education by focusing on what actually works in real bedrooms, using her trauma-informed negotiation frameworks to help couples communicate desires that might otherwise feel uncomfortable to express. Her approach transforms pegging from intimidating to intimately rewarding.
Course FAQ
Absolutely! This course is specifically designed with beginners in mind. Lola Jean breaks down every aspect of pegging into approachable steps, starting with the fundamentals of comfort, safety, and communication. You'll learn at a comfortable pace with no assumption of prior experience, making this the perfect starting point for your pegging journey.
Yes, the course specifically addresses communication techniques for discussing pegging desires in a reassuring, pressure-free way. Lola Jean provides language and approaches for introducing the topic sensitively, addressing common concerns, and establishing trust. Many couples find that the educational foundation this course provides helps transform uncertainty into curiosity and openness.
While pegging typically involves partners, this course offers valuable learning whether you're currently partnered or not. The equipment selection, safety principles, and preparation techniques are beneficial for your personal knowledge. If you're single, you'll be equipped with confidence and expertise for when the right opportunity arises with a future partner.
Everyone's journey is different, but most couples find they can implement the basics within a few practice sessions after completing the course. The preparation techniques and equipment guidance help accelerate the comfort process significantly. Rather than focusing on rushing, Lola Jean emphasizes a pleasure-centered approach where progress happens naturally as trust and experience develop.
No equipment is required to learn from the course itself. In fact, watching before shopping is ideal, as Lola Jean provides specific guidance on selecting the right harness styles, dildo sizes, and accessories for your unique needs and experience level. This prevents common purchasing mistakes and ensures your first experiences are set up for success.
Unlike scattered online information, this course provides a comprehensive, structured learning path from a respected sexuality educator with genuine expertise. Lola Jean addresses the emotional and communication aspects of pegging that most tutorials miss entirely. You'll learn not just the mechanical "how-to" but the nuanced approaches that transform pegging into an intimate, connecting experience.
This course directly addresses the common reasons pegging becomes uncomfortable or painful. Lola Jean's detailed guidance on preparation, relaxation techniques, proper lubrication, and equipment selection specifically targets these issues. Many students who've had previous challenging experiences discover that the methodical approach taught here completely transforms their experience into one of pleasure and connection.
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