Shibari Online Course:
The Sensual Art of Japanese Rope Bondage

Not at all! Skye designed this course specifically for beginners who have little or no experience with rope play. You'll start with simple, foundational techniques and gradually build your skills and confidence through step-by-step instruction. Even if you've never held rope for intimate purposes before, the course progresses at a pace that makes learning comfortable and enjoyable.

Safety is the absolute foundation of this course. Skye thoroughly teaches body-safe tying principles, including pressure point awareness and circulation checks that prevent potential issues. You'll learn specific communication techniques to encourage feedback during rope play, and the course includes clear indicators to watch for that ensure your partner remains comfortable. Remember, consent and safety aren't just add-ons—they're integral to the authentic Shibari experience.

While having a partner enhances the experiential aspects of Shibari, you can absolutely begin learning on your own. The course includes techniques you can practice solo on yourself or with a mannequin/pillow, and many students start this way to build confidence. When you're ready to practice with a partner, the pre-scene negotiation framework Skye teaches will help you initiate that conversation comfortably and create a foundation of trust and understanding.

Many couples report feeling a heightened sense of connection even after their first rope session, simply from the focused attention and communication the practice requires. The trust-building elements of Shibari often translate into deeper intimacy within the first few weeks of regular practice. That said, the transformation is different for every couple—the course emphasizes enjoying the journey rather than rushing toward a destination.

Unlike technical-focused Shibari training that emphasizes complex patterns above all else, Skye's approach centers on the emotional and sensual experience between partners. This course uniquely integrates breath work, intentional touch, and communication practices alongside technical instruction. Skye's background in both traditional Japanese rope art and modern relationship dynamics creates a holistic approach that honors the ritual aspects of Shibari while making it accessible and meaningful for contemporary couples.

Skye recommends starting with 6mm cotton rope specifically designed for body use (not hardware store rope, which can cause rope burn). The course includes a detailed guide on rope selection, preparation, and care—including trusted vendors and what to look for. You'll only need 2-3 lengths of rope to begin with, making this an accessible entry point without requiring a large investment.

The course includes a specific module on introducing rope play to partners, with conversation starters and approaches that emphasize curiosity and connection rather than pressure. Skye suggests starting with the sensual aspects—the feeling of rope sliding across skin, the mindfulness it creates—rather than focusing on restraint. Many students report that sharing introductory videos from the course helps partners understand that Shibari is about creating an experience together, not just "tying someone up."