About This Course
Your Struggles, Solved
Strap-on play can transform relationships and unlock new dimensions of pleasure, yet many couples hesitate due to uncertainty and societal stigmas. This course breaks through those barriers.
You're likely facing:
- Equipment Overwhelm - Confused about choosing the right harness, dildo, and lubricant combinations for safe, pleasurable exploration.
- Confidence & Technique Anxiety - Uncertainty about proper positioning, movement, and communication during strap-on play.
- Social Stigmas - Wrestling with internalized judgments about gender roles and what it means to give or receive pleasure.
This course teaches you essential techniques for comfortable, confident strap-on play. You'll learn how to select and use equipment properly, master communication skills for enhanced intimacy, and develop a repertoire of pleasurable movements. Through Rain's expert guidance, you'll discover how to create transformative experiences that deepen trust and connection.
What You Will Learn
"Strap-on play isn't just about technique - it's about exploring new dimensions of intimacy, trust, and pleasure together in a way that feels empowering for both partners."
— Rain DeGrey, Intimacy Expert & Educator
Equipment Selection & Safety
- Harness & Dildo Selection - Learn to choose the perfect size, material, and style combinations for maximum comfort and pleasure.
- Safety & Maintenance - Master proper cleaning techniques, material care, and lubricant compatibility for worry-free exploration.
Movement & Positioning
- Essential Positions - Discover comfortable, pleasurable positions that work for both partners' bodies and experience levels.
- Movement Techniques - Learn rhythm, depth control, and hip movements that create amazing sensations for both giving and receiving.
Communication & Connection
- Consent & Boundaries - Develop skills for expressing desires, setting limits, and creating a safe space for exploration.
- Emotional Navigation - Learn to address concerns, overcome stigmas, and build deeper trust through open dialogue.
By course completion, you'll confidently navigate strap-on play with the right equipment, techniques, and communication skills to create pleasurable, connecting experiences for both partners.
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Lessons and Classes
- 1. Course Overview and Introduction
- 2. Why Strap-On Play
- 3. The Stigmas of Strap-On Play
- 4. Sex Toy Pleasure and Safety
- 5. Lubrication In Strap-On Play
- 6. Anal Hygiene and Play
- 7. Demonstrating Sex with a Strap-On
Your Instructor
Rain DeGrey
Kink Empowerment Coach
Rain DeGrey has been revolutionizing intimate education since 2009, training over 1,000 individuals in workshops worldwide. As a pioneering kink educator, she's developed industry-standard safety protocols and specializes in making complex intimate practices accessible through her unique blend of medical precision and mindful awareness.
Rain's journey into strap-on education began when she witnessed countless couples struggling with both the technical and emotional aspects of power exchange. Through her work as a harm reduction coordinator, she recognized the need for comprehensive guidance that addressed both physical safety and psychological comfort. This realization led her to develop an approach that transforms hesitation into confidence through conscious exploration.
Rain's teaching methodology combines traditional Leather wisdom with trauma-informed practices, creating a safe container for exploration. Her signature style balances technical instruction with playful encouragement, helping students master both the physical skills and emotional dynamics of strap-on play while feeling supported every step of the way.
Course FAQ
Not at all! Rain designed this course for complete beginners while including advanced techniques for experienced players. We start with the absolute basics of equipment selection and safety before progressing to more complex movements and positions at your own pace.
The course provides a step-by-step approach to implementation, starting with equipment selection and communication exercises you can practice outside the bedroom. Rain guides you through gradually building comfort and confidence, with specific techniques you can try one at a time as you both feel ready.
While many techniques are partner-focused, solo learners can still gain valuable knowledge about equipment selection, safety, and communication skills. The course material will prepare you for future partnerships and help you articulate your interests and boundaries when the time comes.
Everyone's journey is different, but most couples report feeling significantly more confident after completing the equipment selection module and practicing the basic positions. With consistent practice of the communication exercises and movement techniques, many students feel comfortable exploring more advanced practices within 2-3 weeks.
Rain's comprehensive approach addresses both the practical and emotional aspects of strap-on play, going beyond basic mechanics to include communication techniques, emotional navigation, and stigma-breaking exercises. The course uniquely combines equipment expertise with relationship psychology to create a complete learning experience.
Those feelings are completely normal and considered in the course design. Rain provides specific exercises for working through hesitation and building trust gradually. The course includes dedicated sections on addressing common concerns, setting boundaries, and creating emotional safety for both partners.
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