About This Course
Your Struggles, Solved
Anal play can be incredibly pleasurable when done right, but fear, misinformation, and improper technique often stand in the way of enjoying this intimate experience.
You're likely facing:
- Fear of Pain - Concerns that anal play will hurt rather than please, often due to rushing or insufficient preparation.
- Cleanliness Worries - Anxiety about potential messiness that may be preventing you from exploring this pleasure pathway.
- Unrealistic Expectations - Misconceptions from porn that make anal play seem spontaneous and effortless when real-life requires preparation.
This course teaches you proper anatomical understanding and practical techniques for comfortable exploration. You'll learn how to communicate effectively with partners, use breath work to relax muscles, and apply lubrication correctly. By mastering these skills, you can transform anxiety into confidence and discover a new dimension of pleasure.
What You Will Learn
"With proper education and preparation, anal play can become a whole new dimension of pleasure that enhances intimacy and expands your sexual repertoire."
— Amy Baldwin, Sexual Educator
Safety & Comfort Fundamentals
- Proper Preparation Techniques - Learn hygienic practices that eliminate cleanliness concerns and allow you to relax fully into the experience.
- Pain-Free Progression Methods - Master the gradual approach that ensures comfort, using proper breathing techniques and muscle relaxation exercises.
Anatomical Understanding
- Pleasure-Point Mapping - Discover the rich nerve endings and erogenous zones that make anal play potentially orgasmic for all bodies.
- Muscle Awareness & Control - Understand how the sphincter muscles work and how to consciously relax them for comfortable penetration.
Communication & Enhancement
- Partner Communication Scripts - Learn exactly what to say before, during, and after to ensure mutual comfort and pleasure.
- Lubrication Mastery - Understand different lubricant types, proper application techniques, and quantities needed for frictionless pleasure.
By the end of this course, you'll transform anxiety into confidence, approaching anal play with knowledge, preparation, and techniques that prioritize pleasure over performance.
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Lessons and Classes
- 1. Introduction to Anal Pleasure
- 2. Why Aren’t People Into Anal
- 3. Anal Sex and Poop
- 4. Safer Anal Sex
- 5. Cleanliness
- 6. Anal Anatomy
- 7. Safety
- 8. Lube
- 9. Anal Penetration
- 10. Timing
- 11. Communication
- 12. Sex Toys
- 13. Positions
- 14. Anal Orgasms
- 15. Pleasure with Butt Plugs and Beads
- 16. Vibration and Pressure
- 17. Pleasure with Dildos and Harnesses
- 18. Stimulating the Prostate
- 19. Prostate Health
- 20. Self Pleasure
- 21. Breath
- 22. Hemorrhoids
- 23. Will I Be Loose
Your Instructor
Amy Baldwin
Sex and Relationship Coach
Amy Baldwin is a Certified Sex Educator with over 15 years of experience specializing in shame-free intimate exploration. As a Somatica® Method Coach and Hakomi Method Practitioner, she blends body-centered techniques with trauma-informed practices to create transformative learning experiences about taboo subjects like anal pleasure.
Amy's journey into sexual wellness began with a powerful belief: everyone deserves pleasure without shame. This philosophy inspired her to co-own Pure Pleasure Shop, a sex-positive boutique, and launch the wildly successful "Shameless Sex" podcast reaching millions across 150 countries. Through her own experiences—including the challenging ones—Amy learned that anal play, like any intimate practice, requires patience, knowledge, and a judgment-free approach to truly enjoy.
Amy approaches anal pleasure as simply another pathway to connection and sensation, without judgment or unnecessary mystique. She believes sexual skill-building requires the same intentional practice as learning any other skill, combining practical techniques with psychological insights. Her signature blend of anatomical education, relaxation methods, and communication strategies empowers students to explore with confidence and playfulness.
Course FAQ
Absolutely! Amy designed this course specifically with beginners in mind. You'll start with the fundamentals of preparation, anatomy, and relaxation techniques before progressing to more advanced concepts. The step-by-step approach ensures you can move at your own pace and build confidence gradually.
While watching together can be beneficial, it's not required. Many students learn the techniques individually first and then share their knowledge with partners when they feel confident. The course includes specific communication scripts to help you discuss desires and boundaries, whether you've watched together or not.
Amy provides practical, gradual implementation steps that build your confidence naturally. The course includes specific breathing techniques, muscle relaxation exercises, and progression methods you can practice solo before bringing a partner into the equation. Many students find that the anatomical knowledge alone significantly reduces awkwardness, replacing it with informed confidence.
Every body is different, but most students report increased comfort after implementing the preparation and relaxation techniques for just a few practice sessions. The course emphasizes that this isn't a race—your journey might take days or weeks, and that's perfectly normal. What matters is the quality of the experience, not how quickly you progress.
Unlike generic tutorials, Amy brings her expertise as a sexual educator to address the psychological aspects of anal pleasure alongside the physical techniques. This course offers structured, body-positive guidance with specific preparation methods, anatomically accurate information, and communication strategies specifically designed for real couples. The focus is on mutual pleasure rather than performance, with safety and comfort as priorities.
Yes! Amy understands this is the #1 concern for most people. The course includes detailed, practical hygiene protocols that go beyond basic advice, teaching you specific preparation techniques that eliminate cleanliness concerns. You'll learn exactly what to do before, during, and after to ensure a clean, comfortable experience every time.
Preventing pain is one of the core focuses of this course. Amy teaches specific muscle relaxation techniques, proper lubrication methods, and a gradual progression approach that prioritizes comfort over rushing. You'll learn to recognize your body's signals and how to communicate boundaries effectively, ensuring the experience remains pleasant rather than painful.
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