About This Course
Your Struggles, Solved
Taboo fantasies can be the gateway to profound intimacy, yet they remain locked behind fear and awkwardness. This course transforms your forbidden desires into opportunities for connection.
You're likely facing:
- Communication Paralysis - You want to share your desires but freeze at the thought of your partner's possible judgment or rejection.
- Timing Troubles - You've tried bringing up your fantasies, but picked moments that led to awkwardness rather than understanding.
- Confidence Crisis - You struggle to articulate what you want without feeling ashamed or embarrassed about your taboo interests.
This course teaches you proven strategies for initiating kink conversations with confidence and grace. You'll learn practical techniques like mirror practice and journaling to clarify your desires before sharing them. Mae guides you through partner negotiations and gradual exploration methods that respect boundaries while opening doors to new pleasures.
What You Will Learn
"Taboo fantasies become transformative when approached with mindfulness and mutual consent. They're not just desires—they're doorways to deeper intimacy and understanding."
— Mae Ling, Intimacy & Kink Educator
Confident Communication
- Mirror Practice Techniques - Master expressing your desires aloud in private first, building confidence before sharing with your partner.
- Desire Journaling Method - Clarify exactly what excites you about taboo fantasies, making conversations more specific and less overwhelming.
Strategic Timing & Approach
- Opportunity Identification - Recognize natural openings for fantasy discussions, avoiding awkward moments that shut down possibilities.
- Progressive Disclosure Framework - Learn the step-by-step method for revealing desires gradually rather than overwhelming your partner.
Boundary Negotiation
- Consent Mapping - Create clear agreements about what's comfortable, exciting, and off-limits for both partners.
- Fantasy-to-Reality Translation - Transform abstract desires into practical experiences that honor both partners' comfort levels.
By course completion, you'll confidently initiate taboo fantasy conversations that lead to mutual exploration rather than judgment or awkwardness.
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Lessons and Classes
- 1. Welcome to Taboo Kinks
- 2. List of Taboo Kinks
- 3. Taboo Kink Research
- 4. Taboo Kink Conversation
- 5. Taboo Kink Incorporation
- 6. Reality vs. Fantasy
- 7. More Taboo Kinks
- 8. Taboo Kinks Conversation Demo
Your Instructor
Mae Ling
Dominatrix
Mae Ling is an influential sexual educator and founder of a Vienna-based art collective that explores the intersection of desire, race, and gender. Her unique methodology combines artistic expression with evidence-based intimacy practices, helping thousands transform their approach to taboo fantasies and fetish exploration. Her Progressive Disclosure Framework has become renowned for making complex kink concepts accessible to beginners and experienced practitioners alike.
Mae's journey began with her own struggle to communicate desires that didn't fit conventional narratives. "So many of us carry shame around our desires," she often shares. This personal experience inspired her provocative exhibitions like "NOT YOUR ORNAMENT" and eventually led to her developing practical tools for navigating taboo conversations. What started as her own quest for authentic expression evolved into a mission to create shame-free spaces where others could explore their deepest fantasies without judgment.
Mae's approach blends psychological safety with concrete action steps, focusing on her signature Consent Mapping and Fantasy-to-Reality Translation techniques. Rather than just theoretical concepts, she provides hands-on methods like Mirror Practice and Desire Journaling that build lasting confidence. Her warm, conversational style transforms potentially intimidating topics into approachable conversations that foster deeper intimacy and connection.
Course FAQ
This course is specifically designed for all experience levels, including complete beginners who are just curious about exploring taboo fantasies. Mae Ling has structured the Progressive Disclosure Framework to be accessible whether you're kink-curious or looking to deepen existing practices. The Mirror Practice Techniques are particularly valuable for newcomers who need to build confidence in expressing desires they've never shared before.
The course provides concrete conversation starters and timing strategies through the Opportunity Identification module that helps you recognize natural openings for these discussions. You'll learn Mae's gradual approach technique that starts with lighter topics before moving toward more taboo desires. The Desire Journaling Method will also give you the specific language to express what excites you in ways that invite curiosity rather than judgment.
While partners can certainly take the course together for a shared experience, it's designed to be effective even if you take it solo. You'll learn techniques for initiating conversations and translating what you've learned to your relationship context. Many students find that the solo preparation actually helps them approach their partner with more clarity and confidence about their desires.
Many students report feeling significantly more confident after completing the Mirror Practice Techniques in the first section of the course. The full transformation typically unfolds as you implement the journaling and communication strategies over a few weeks. Remember that this is a personal journey – Mae focuses on giving you tools that build lasting confidence rather than pushing for rushed conversations that might backfire.
Mae's approach is unique in combining psychological safety with practical action steps. Unlike generic communication advice, her Consent Mapping and Fantasy-to-Reality Translation techniques are specifically designed for taboo desires that carry emotional weight. The course bridges the gap between understanding your desires and actually expressing them by providing practice methods rather than just theory.
This course specifically addresses this common fear through the Strategic Timing & Approach section. Mae teaches you how to create emotional safety before disclosure and how to frame your desires in ways that emphasize connection rather than specific acts. You'll also learn how to respect initial hesitation and create space for processing, which often transforms initial resistance into curiosity over time.
The course principles apply to the full spectrum of consensual adult fantasies, from light power play to more intense taboo desires. Mae focuses on the communication process rather than judging specific kinks, while emphasizing consent and mutual comfort. The Boundary Negotiation module specifically helps you determine what aspects of your fantasies might be brought into reality and which might remain in the realm of fantasy – both options are perfectly valid.
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