About This Course
Your Struggles, Solved
Disability doesn't diminish desire. Yet society often overlooks the sexual needs of disabled individuals, leaving many to navigate intimacy without proper guidance or support.
You're likely facing:
- Dating Communication Barriers - Explaining personal care needs to potential partners feels awkward, especially when it involves third parties like aides.
- Limited Adaptive Resources - Finding sex toys and techniques that work with your specific mobility or sensory needs can be frustratingly difficult.
- Assistance Discomfort - Asking for help with intimate needs like masturbation feels embarrassing, even when you require assistance with other daily activities.
This course teaches practical adaptations for your unique body, from selecting appropriate sex toys to communicating effectively with partners and aides. You'll learn techniques for maintaining dignity while requesting assistance with intimate needs. Discover strategies that transform limitations into opportunities for creativity, ensuring your disability requires adaptation, not abstinence.
What You Will Learn
"Your disability requires adaptation, not abstinence. You deserve a fulfilling sex life that honors both your desires and your unique body's capabilities."
— Evan Sweeney, Disability & Sexuality Educator
Communication Strategies
- Partner Conversation Templates - Practice clear, confident ways to discuss your needs with potential partners before intimacy begins.
- Aide Interaction Protocols - Learn dignified approaches for requesting assistance with intimate preparations while maintaining personal boundaries.
Adaptive Techniques
- Position Modifications - Discover practical adjustments that accommodate mobility limitations while maximizing pleasure and comfort.
- Assistive Device Selection - Evaluate sex toys and tools specifically designed for different disability needs and sensory preferences.
Psychological Empowerment
- Confidence Building - Develop a positive sexual self-image that embraces your body exactly as it is.
- Boundary Setting - Create and communicate personal limits that ensure your comfort while exploring intimacy.
By course completion, you'll confidently navigate intimate relationships with practical adaptations tailored to your specific disability, transforming limitations into opportunities for creative connection.
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Lessons and Classes
- 1. Course Introduction
- 2. Navigating Disability Challenges During First Dates
- 3. How to Talk About Your Disability
- 4. How to Start a Conversation About Safer Sex
- 5. Adapting Sex Toys
- 6. Assisted Masturbation
Your Instructor
Evan Sweeney
Sex and Disability Educator
Evan Sweeney is a pioneering inclusive sex educator with over 15 years of experience challenging society's silence around disability and sexuality. Living with cerebral palsy as a non-verbal wheelchair user, they've conducted 200+ workshops nationwide and developed innovative techniques like their revolutionary laser-pointer communication system specifically for sexual education accessibility.
When Evan first navigated intimacy with cerebral palsy, they discovered a profound gap in resources—sexual education simply wasn't designed for bodies like theirs. This frustration transformed into purpose after studying Gender Studies at Occidental College. Instead of accepting society's message that "disability means abstinence," Evan created "Cripping Up Sex," turning personal adaptation strategies into a movement that celebrates every body's right to pleasure and connection.
Evan's approach balances practical solutions with emotional empowerment, focusing on adaptation rather than limitation. They combine warm humor with trauma-informed techniques that honor diverse bodies and abilities. Each adaptive strategy—from positioning techniques to communication frameworks—is presented with flexibility, allowing you to customize approaches based on your specific needs and comfort level.
Course FAQ
Yes, Evan has designed this course to address a wide spectrum of disabilities, including mobility, sensory, and cognitive differences. The adaptive techniques are presented with flexibility in mind, allowing you to customize approaches based on your specific needs. You'll find relevant content whether you're dealing with congenital conditions or acquired disabilities.
The course is structured to build your confidence gradually, starting with simple communication exercises you can practice privately before any physical implementation. Evan encourages a step-by-step approach where you can pause, reflect, and adapt each technique to your comfort level. Remember that adaptation is personal—there's no timeline for implementing these strategies except your own.
Not at all! While some modules address partner communication, much of the course focuses on developing your personal sexual confidence and self-knowledge. If you're currently single, you'll gain valuable skills for future relationships and self-pleasure techniques adapted to your needs. The communication templates are equally valuable for discussing needs with healthcare providers or personal aides.
Many students report immediate benefits in their personal confidence and self-image just from having access to disability-specific information that's typically overlooked. The practical communication techniques can be implemented right away, while adaptive physical techniques may take more time to explore and personalize. Your progress depends on your individual circumstances and comfort with experimentation.
Unlike mainstream sex education that treats able bodies as the default, this course explicitly centers disability in every aspect of intimacy. Evan draws from both professional expertise and community insights to address specific challenges like working with assistants, adapting standard positions, and selecting appropriate assistive devices. The content acknowledges the intersection of medical needs and pleasure without treating disability as a problem to overcome.
Evan provides specific scripts and boundary-setting frameworks that maintain your dignity while clearly communicating needs. You'll learn practical language that destigmatizes assistance with intimate preparations and techniques for separating medical aid from private enjoyment. The course includes approaches for different care relationships, recognizing that communication styles may vary between family caregivers and professional aides.
Absolutely. A significant portion of the course focuses on psychological empowerment, directly challenging societal myths that desexualize disabled bodies. Evan guides you through exercises to recognize and reframe limiting beliefs about your sexual potential. The confidence-building modules help you embrace your body exactly as it is, shifting focus from what your body cannot do to the unique pleasures it can experience.
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