About This Course
Your Struggles, Solved
Mastering a lap dance isn't just about moves – it's about reclaiming your sensuality and creating an unforgettable intimate experience that leaves both you and your partner breathless.
You're likely facing:
- Body Self-Consciousness - You feel awkward or uncertain about your movements, preventing you from fully expressing your sensuality.
- Lack of Technical Know-How - Without proper guidance, your attempts at erotic dancing feel mechanical rather than fluid and seductive.
- Performance Anxiety - The pressure to "look sexy" creates nervousness that blocks your natural sensuality and confidence.
This course teaches you the foundational postures, movements, and vocalizations that transform awkward attempts into confident, sensual expression. You'll learn to create the perfect environment, master chair-based choreography, and incorporate teasing techniques. Through Kimberly's Mirror Work Pedagogy, you'll develop the body confidence to fully embrace your sensual power.
What You Will Learn
"A lap dance is an intimate gift you give both your partner and yourself—it's about embracing your sensuality while creating an unforgettable experience that deepens your connection."
— Kimberly Smith, Erotic Dance Instructor
Body Confidence & Sensual Expression
- Mirror Work Techniques - Practice proven exercises that transform self-consciousness into genuine body confidence, empowering your authentic sensual expression.
- Sensuality Mindset Shifts - Overcome performance anxiety with mental frameworks that help you embrace your unique sensuality regardless of body type or experience.
Technical Foundations & Choreography
- Core Movement Patterns - Master fundamental postures and fluid transitions that form the building blocks of a captivating, natural-looking erotic dance.
- Chair-Based Sequences - Learn adaptable choreography specifically designed for intimate spaces that creates maximum impact with minimal complexity.
Creating the Full Experience
- Atmosphere & Setting Design - Transform any space into the perfect sensual environment with simple adjustments to lighting, music, and room arrangement.
- Progressive Teasing Techniques - Incorporate strategic touches, pauses, and vocalizations that build anticipation and deepen your connection with your partner.
By the end of this course, you'll confidently deliver a sensual, fluid lap dance that expresses your authentic sexuality while creating an unforgettable intimate experience for both partners.
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Lessons and Classes
- 1. Introduction to Lap Dance
- 2. Lap Dance Preparation
- 3. The Perfect Chair
- 4. Vocalizations
- 5. Duck Posture
- 6. Pole Position
- 7. Reverse Robert
- 8. One Handed Lotion
- 9. Slip N’ Slide Up & Down
- 10. Hip Turn
- 11. Grinding
- 12. Grinding Up & Down
- 13. The Subway Itch
- 14. Santa Sit
- 15. The Recliner
- 16. Reverse Body Slide
- 17. Slip N' Slide Solo Practice
- 18. Grinding Solo Practice
- 19. Santa Sit Solo Practice
Your Instructor
Kimberly Smith
Erotic Dance Teacher
With over two decades of experience as a professional exotic dancer and founder of StripXpertease, Kimberly Smith has pioneered private erotic dance instruction specifically designed for couples and individuals. Her distinctive Mirror Work Pedagogy transforms complex club techniques into accessible movements that build genuine confidence and enhance intimate connections.
During her years dancing in Texas strip clubs throughout the 1990s, Kimberly experienced a profound realization: the techniques she had mastered weren't just for professional performers—they could help anyone reconnect with their body and sensuality. This insight prompted her to develop chair-based choreography systems that work beautifully for all body types, moving beyond performative expectations to focus on authentic self-expression and intimate connection.
Unlike fitness-oriented approaches to erotic dance, Kimberly's methodology combines precise anatomical instruction with emotional vulnerability exercises. She breaks down intimidating movements into playful, accessible steps while addressing the psychological barriers that prevent full sensual expression. This holistic approach ensures you're not just learning moves, but experiencing a transformation in how you perceive your body.
Course FAQ
Absolutely not! Kimberly designed this course specifically for beginners with no previous dance training. The choreography breaks down complex-looking movements into simple, accessible steps that anyone can master. You'll start with basic postures and gradually build confidence before combining them into a complete routine.
This concern is exactly why Kimberly developed her Mirror Work Pedagogy as a central part of the course. These techniques are specifically designed to transform self-consciousness into genuine body confidence, regardless of your shape or size. Many students report that this mental shift is the most valuable part of the course, allowing them to embrace their unique sensuality.
The course includes specific guidance on creating the perfect setting through simple adjustments to lighting, music, and room arrangement that set the stage for success. Kimberly also teaches progressive teasing techniques that help you ease into the experience naturally. Many students find that starting with just one or two movements in an intimate moment builds confidence before revealing their full routine.
While you can certainly involve your partner if you'd like, the course is designed to be practiced solo first to build your confidence. Kimberly recommends mastering the movements on your own using the Mirror Work techniques, which actually enhances the surprise and impact when you finally perform for your partner. This approach also removes performance pressure during the learning phase.
Most students master the core movements within their first 2-3 practice sessions. The chair-based sequences are specifically designed to look fluid and sensual even with minimal practice. Kimberly's step-by-step approach means you can start implementing individual techniques immediately, while a complete 3-5 minute routine typically takes about a week of short practice sessions to feel comfortable with.
Unlike generic dance tutorials, Kimberly's method integrates physical technique with psychological confidence-building through her signature Mirror Work Pedagogy. This course specifically addresses the biggest barrier most people face—feeling self-conscious—while teaching adaptable choreography designed for intimate spaces and real bodies. You're not just learning moves; you're developing a holistic approach to sensual expression.
Absolutely! Many couples take this course separately and then surprise each other with personalized routines. The course teaches foundational movements that can be personalized in countless ways, meaning even if you both learn the same techniques, your individual expressions will create unique experiences. Some couples even report that sharing the learning journey creates a fun, playful dynamic that enhances their connection.
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