About This Course
Your Struggles, Solved
Genital touch might be our most underutilized tool for pleasure and connection. Yet many of us approach it with hesitation, uncertainty, and self-imposed pressure.
You're likely facing:
- Performance Pressure - You focus so much on pleasing your partner that you create tension, diminishing pleasure for both of you.
- Technical Uncertainty - You're unsure if your touch techniques are effective, leading to hesitation instead of confident exploration.
- Vulnerability Barriers - Discomfort with genital touch prevents you from fully experiencing or expressing pleasure during intimate moments.
This course teaches you practical techniques for confident, mindful genital touch. You'll learn the foundations of "relaxed giving" and "active receiving" that transform intimate experiences. Discover specific touch methods for different genital anatomy, along with communication approaches that build trust and deepen connection with your partner.
What You Will Learn
"When you understand how to touch with confidence and mindfulness, you transform intimate moments from routine to extraordinary, creating deeper connection and pleasure for both partners."
— Libby Sheppard, Intimacy Coach
Mindful Touch Techniques
- Relaxed Giving Methods - Practical approaches to touch without performance pressure, allowing you to be present and responsive rather than anxious.
- Active Receiving Skills - How to communicate and experience pleasure without self-consciousness, breaking through vulnerability barriers during intimate moments.
Anatomy-Specific Approaches
- Vulva & Clitoris Stimulation - Specific techniques for different anatomical structures, replacing uncertainty with confident knowledge of what creates pleasure.
- Penis & Testicle Touch - Varied pressure, rhythm, and stroke techniques that go beyond basic methods for heightened sensation and response.
Communication & Connection
- Feedback Frameworks - Simple ways to express preferences and respond to guidance without breaking the mood or creating awkwardness.
- Pleasure-Focused Mindset - Mental approaches that transform touch from goal-oriented to experience-centered, deepening intimacy and enjoyment.
By course completion, you'll confidently give and receive genital touch with a relaxed, curious approach that transforms intimate moments into deeper connection and heightened pleasure.
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Lessons and Classes
- 1. How to Use This Course
- 2. Why and How of Intimate Touch
- 3. The Basis of a Good Sex Life
- 4. 3 Stage Mindful Masturbation
- 5. Self Erotic Massage
- 6. Top-To-Toe Touch
- 7. Foundations of Touch
- 8. Breath Meditation
- 9. Anatomy
- 10. Female Pelvis
- 11. Male Pelvis
- 12. Mapping Exercise
- 13. Mapping Your Own Genitals
- 14. Mapping Your Partner’s Genitals
- 15. Reflecting on Your Experience
- 16. Before You Begin the Vulva and Vagina Massage
- 17. The Pelvis Massage
- 18. The Vulva Massage
- 19. The Lips Massage
- 20. The Clitoris Massage
- 21. Internal Touch Massage
- 22. Full Vulva and Vagina Massage Session
- 23. Before You Begin the Penis Massage
- 24. The Perineum Massage
- 25. The Pelvis Massage
- 26. The Shaft Massage
- 27. The Tip Massage
- 28. The Balls Massage
- 29. Full Penis Massage Session
- 30. Reflection
Your Instructor
Libby Sheppard
Touch & Intimacy Expert
Libby Sheppard is a specialized Intimacy Coach and Bodyworker with over a decade of experience transforming how couples experience touch. Her unique expertise combines professional massage techniques with advanced training in Somatic Sex Education, The Wheel of Consent, and Tantric Bodywork—creating a distinctive approach to genital touch that's both technical and deeply connected.
Libby's journey began in music and contemporary dance, where she developed an intimate understanding of body mechanics and physical expression. This foundation led her to recognize touch as our most underutilized wellbeing tool, especially when couples struggle to connect non-verbally. She witnessed how miscommunications around touch silently eroded relationships for years, inspiring her to develop protocols that anyone could practice—regardless of setting or previous comfort level with intimate touch.
Libby's revolutionary "relaxed giving/active receiving" philosophy transforms genital touch from a performance into a conversation. She specializes in translating professional techniques into accessible practices that require no special equipment—just presence and intention. Her trauma-informed methodology ensures everyone can benefit from her teachings, creating a safe environment to explore pleasure without pressure.
Course FAQ
This course is designed for all experience levels – from complete beginners to those looking to refine existing skills. Libby Sheppard builds from fundamental concepts to more advanced techniques, ensuring everyone can follow along comfortably. The step-by-step approach means you'll never feel lost or overwhelmed, regardless of your starting point.
Libby provides specific guidance on introducing new touch techniques naturally into your intimate experiences. You'll learn communication frameworks that help ease transitions and express desires without breaking the mood. Many students find that starting with the "relaxed giving" approach significantly reduces awkwardness, as it shifts focus from performance to connection.
While having a partner allows for immediate practice, singles absolutely benefit from this course too. You'll gain valuable knowledge about anatomy and responsive touch that builds confidence for future relationships. Additionally, many techniques can be applied to self-pleasure, helping you better understand your own preferences and responses.
Many students report immediate improvements in confidence and communication after applying just the foundational techniques. The full transformation – developing a truly mindful, responsive touch approach – typically evolves over several weeks of practice. The beauty of this course is that each technique provides its own benefits, so you'll likely experience progressive improvements rather than waiting for a single breakthrough moment.
Unlike many approaches that focus solely on mechanical techniques, Libby's method uniquely balances physical skills with mindfulness and communication. The integration of "relaxed giving" and "active receiving" creates a feedback loop that transforms touch from a one-way experience into a dynamic conversation. This course specifically addresses the mental barriers that prevent fully embodied touch, not just the physical movements.
Absolutely – addressing this exact discomfort is one of the course's strengths. Libby creates a comfortable learning environment by using clear, matter-of-fact language without being clinical or crude. The feedback frameworks you'll learn provide practical vocabulary and approaches for discussing preferences without awkwardness. Many students report that this course transformed their ability to communicate about pleasure.
Libby specifically addresses this common concern with practical scripts and approaches for established relationships. You'll learn to frame new techniques as exploration and enhancement rather than correction. The course includes specific guidance on inviting a partner to learn together, creating a collaborative adventure that strengthens your connection rather than suggesting inadequacy.
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