







About This Course
Your Struggles, Solved
Touch can be transformative, yet most of us never learn how to use it effectively. This course bridges the gap between ordinary massage and profound sensual connection.
You're likely facing:
- Uncertainty About Pressure - You second-guess how much pressure to apply, especially on sensitive areas like the sacrum and neck.
- Disconnected Touch - Your massage feels mechanical rather than intimate, missing the energy connection that makes touch meaningful.
- Limited Sensuality Toolkit - You rely on the same few movements, unsure how to progress from relaxation to awakening desire.
In this course, you'll learn how to combine anatomical precision with energetic awareness for truly transformative touch. You'll master techniques for activating specific energy centers, particularly around the sacrum, and develop a flowing rhythm that builds natural intimacy. These skills help create the conditions for deeper connection and enhanced sensual experiences with your partner.
What You Will Learn
"Touch is a powerful way to create connection and intimacy. This course will transform how you use your hands to communicate love and awaken sensuality."
— Jaya Shivani, Sensual Massage Expert
Pressure & Technique Mastery
- Intuitive Pressure Control - Learn to adjust touch intensity for different body areas, eliminating guesswork when working on sensitive regions like the sacrum.
- Anatomical Awareness - Discover key muscle groups and how they respond to different touch techniques, ensuring comfort while maximizing pleasure response.
Energy & Connection
- Presence Cultivation - Develop the ability to stay fully engaged during touch, transforming mechanical movements into meaningful exchanges of energy.
- Energetic Activation - Master techniques for awakening specific body centers that enhance intimacy and create deeper sensual connection.
Flow & Progression
- Seamless Transitions - Create a natural rhythm between techniques that builds anticipation and transforms ordinary touch into extraordinary experiences.
- Relaxation-to-Desire Pathway - Learn how to gradually shift from stress-relieving touch to arousal-inducing sensations that awaken passion.
By the end of this course, you'll confidently deliver flowing, connected massages that create profound intimacy and open new dimensions of sensual experience with your partner.
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Lessons and Classes
- 1. Introduction to This Course
- 2. How to Prepare for a Sensual Massage
- 3. How to Start the Massage
- 4. Simple Techniques
- 5. Back and Arm Massage
- 6. Leg and Foot Massage
- 7. Massaging the Front of the Body
- 8. Full Body Massage
Your Instructor

Jaya Shivani
Sensuality Educator
Jaya Shivani is a conscious sexuality and relationship coach specializing in transformative touch techniques. With extensive training in both anatomical precision and energetic bodywork, she's helped thousands of students across 100+ countries rediscover intimate connection through her signature massage courses, including Sensual Vulva Massage and Sensual Penis Massage.
Like many of us, Jaya once struggled with the disconnect between conventional approaches to touch and truly fulfilling experiences. This personal journey led her to develop an integrated method honoring both physical and energetic dimensions of massage. She discovered that when touch combines anatomical knowledge with energetic awareness, it creates a bridge to profound intimacy—a revelation that transformed her own relationships before she began teaching others.
Jaya's approach uniquely blends precise technique with energetic presence, emphasizing the activation of specific energy centers, particularly around the sacrum. She creates a safe, judgment-free space where students learn to progress naturally from relaxation to desire, teaching not just the "how" of touch but the subtle awareness that transforms ordinary massage into a profound connection experience.
Course FAQ
Not at all! Jaya Shivani designed this course for all skill levels, from complete beginners to those with some massage experience. The techniques are broken down into clear, easy-to-follow demonstrations that build your confidence progressively. You'll start with basic pressure and touch fundamentals before moving to more nuanced energy work and sensual techniques.
Start by sharing what drew you to the course and focus on the relaxation benefits first rather than the sensual aspects. Jaya recommends beginning with a short 10-minute session focusing on shoulders or back using the basic techniques, which creates trust and comfort. Many students find their partners become enthusiastic participants once they experience how different these techniques feel from ordinary massages.
Absolutely. This course creates a gentle bridge to greater intimacy through non-demanding touch. Jaya's approach emphasizes presence and connection first, which many couples find helps break through intimacy barriers naturally. The pressure control and anatomical awareness you'll learn provides a structured way to reconnect physically without performance pressure.
Many couples report feeling an immediate shift in their connection after the very first practice session, particularly from the presence cultivation techniques. The full benefits of the energy work and seamless transitions typically develop over 3-4 practice sessions as your confidence grows. What's most powerful is how the regular practice of intentional touch creates ongoing intimacy beyond individual sessions.
Unlike traditional massage that focuses primarily on physical tension release, Jaya's approach integrates energy awareness with anatomical precision. You'll learn how to activate specific energy centers, particularly around the sacrum, which creates a deeper sensual connection that ordinary massages miss. The course also uniquely teaches how to create a natural progression from relaxation to desire, something rarely covered in conventional massage instruction.
The techniques themselves require no special equipment—just your hands and a comfortable surface. Jaya does recommend a basic natural massage oil to reduce friction, but provides suggestions for household alternatives that work perfectly well. The course emphasizes that the quality of your presence and technique matters far more than products or setup.
Yes, adaptability is built into the course. Jaya provides specific guidance for varying pressure and positions to accommodate different body types, sensitive areas, and physical limitations. The focus on intuitive pressure control means you'll learn to read and respond to your partner's unique needs, making the massage comfortable and pleasurable regardless of physical considerations.
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