







About This Course
Your Struggles, Solved
Erotic massage has the power to transform intimate moments from routine to extraordinary, creating deep connection and awakening sexual energy between partners.
You're likely facing:
- Lack of Presence - Your mind wanders during intimate moments, making it difficult to fully connect with your partner on a deeper level.
- Technique Uncertainty - You want to please your partner but feel unsure about touch techniques that will truly awaken pleasure and energy.
- Communication Barriers - Discussing preferences and giving feedback during intimate touch feels awkward or uncomfortable.
This course teaches you how to synchronize breath and touch to create profound connection. You'll learn step-by-step tantric massage techniques that awaken and circulate sexual energy throughout the body. The practical guidance on communication helps you create a safe space where both partners can surrender to pleasure and deepen intimacy.
What You Will Learn
"Tantric massage creates a sacred moment of connection through mindful touch, allowing both giver and receiver to experience deeper intimacy and sensual awakening."
— Yves Bonroy, Tantric Massage Instructor
Mindful Connection Techniques
- Synchronized Breathing - Master breath-matching techniques that anchor both partners in the present moment, eliminating mental distractions during intimate touch.
- Presence Rituals - Create pre-massage practices that clear mental clutter and establish a sacred space for deep connection and heightened awareness.
Expert Touch Methodologies
- Full-Body Massage Sequence - Follow step-by-step guidance for a complete tantric massage that builds pleasure gradually and awakens energy throughout the body.
- Pressure and Rhythm Variations - Identify the perfect touch intensity and pacing for different body areas, creating waves of pleasure that respond to your partner's unique needs.
Intimate Communication Skills
- Non-Verbal Feedback Reading - Interpret subtle body responses to adjust your technique, creating a safe space where words aren't always necessary.
- Comfort-Building Dialogues - Use specific conversation frameworks that make discussing desires and boundaries feel natural and strengthening to your connection.
Transform ordinary touch into extraordinary connection as you confidently guide your partner through a tantric massage journey that deepens intimacy and awakens full-body pleasure.
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Lessons and Classes
- 1. Introduction to Erotic Massage
- 2. Massage on Partner with a Penis
- 3. Massage on Partner with a Vulva
Your Instructor

Yves Bonroy
Sexual Wellness Coach
Yves Bonroy is a certified Psychosexual Somatics Therapist who brings over 10,000 coaching hours and a decade of professional tantric bodywork experience to his teaching. His Sexual Fitness framework uniquely bridges ancient tantric practices with modern neuroscience, making him exceptionally qualified to teach the art of erotic massage that awakens deep connection.
Yves' journey began in courtrooms as a lawyer before a profound realization led him to temples across Asia and Europe to study tantric sexuality. Through his own transformation, he discovered that presence—not just technique—was the missing element in most intimate relationships. This insight became the cornerstone of his approach after experiencing firsthand how tantric practices could create a level of connection most couples never experience.
Yves breaks down complex energetic concepts into playful, practical exercises that create immediate shifts in connection. His step-by-step method emphasizes synchronized breathing, presence rituals, and goal-free intimacy—creating a judgment-free space where couples can safely explore new dimensions of pleasure without needing to chant or sit in lotus position.
Course FAQ
Not at all! Yves designed this course for all experience levels, from complete beginners to those looking to refine their techniques. The step-by-step instruction breaks down each movement and approach so clearly that even if you've never given a massage before, you'll gain confidence quickly. The course progresses naturally from basic fundamentals to more advanced techniques.
You can start by introducing individual elements—like the synchronized breathing or presence rituals—into your current intimate moments before trying the complete massage sequence. Yves suggests beginning with a 15-minute practice session when you're both relaxed and free from distractions. The course includes practical transition suggestions for moving between everyday connection and these more intentional pleasure experiences.
Either approach works beautifully! You can absolutely learn the techniques independently and surprise your partner with new skills. However, sharing the learning experience together can create its own form of intimacy and ensure you're both comfortable with the process. The course includes communication frameworks specifically designed to help introduce these practices to a partner who hasn't taken the course.
Many couples report feeling a deeper sense of connection from their very first practice session, simply through the intentional presence the techniques create. The full benefits—including enhanced communication, deeper pleasure awareness, and the ability to read subtle body responses—typically develop over 3-4 weeks of regular practice. Remember that this journey is about exploration and connection, not performance.
Unlike regular sensual massage that focuses primarily on physical pleasure, tantric massage integrates mindfulness and energy awareness to create a holistic experience. Yves teaches specific techniques that help circulate pleasure throughout the entire body rather than concentrating solely on erogenous zones. This approach transforms massage from a purely physical activity into a deeply connective practice that awakens sensuality on multiple levels.
Absolutely. The course specifically addresses how to create comfort and safety through non-verbal communication and presence rituals. Yves guides you through techniques that help bypass mental barriers by focusing on sensation and breath rather than performance. Many couples find that tantric massage offers a gentle pathway back to physical connection precisely because it removes pressure and emphasizes presence over outcome.
While the course suggests some basic massage oils that enhance the experience, you don't need any specialized equipment to begin practicing. Yves provides practical suggestions for creating a conducive environment with items you likely already have at home. The course includes a simple setup guide that works for any living situation, whether you have a dedicated space or need to transform your bedroom temporarily.
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