About This Course
Your Struggles, Solved
Dirty talk can transform your intimate moments, yet many find themselves tongue-tied or anxious when it comes to expressing desire through words. It's time to break through those barriers.
You're likely facing:
- Fear of Rejection or Judgment - You worry your partner might laugh or respond negatively, making you hesitant to express yourself during intimate moments.
- Self-Consciousness About Your Voice - Concerns about not sounding "sexy enough" or finding the right words keep you silent when you want to speak up.
- Getting Stuck in Your Head - Overthinking disconnects you from the moment, making it difficult to stay present and express yourself naturally.
This course teaches you practical techniques to build confidence in erotic communication, from crafting personalized phrases to mastering different arousal states. You'll learn how to stay present in your body while speaking, communicate boundaries effectively, and create an authentic dirty talk style that feels natural to you. These skills can lead to more playful, connected, and exciting intimate experiences.
What You Will Learn
"Dirty talk isn't about memorizing scripts - it's about finding your authentic voice and learning to express your desires confidently and naturally."
— Marla Renee Stewart, Sexologist & Intimacy Expert
Building Confidence & Authenticity
- Overcome Self-Consciousness - Develop personalized techniques to feel confident in your voice and word choices, eliminating anxiety about how you sound.
- Create Your Unique Style - Learn to craft authentic phrases that reflect your personality, helping you express yourself without fear of judgment.
Practical Communication Skills
- Master Different Intensity Levels - Learn to adjust your language from subtle hints to explicit expressions, matching various arousal states.
- Read & Respond to Feedback - Develop skills to interpret partner reactions and adjust your approach while staying present in the moment.
Connection & Presence
- Stay Grounded During Expression - Practice techniques to remain present and connected while speaking, rather than getting stuck in your head.
- Set Clear Boundaries - Learn to communicate limits and desires effectively, creating a safe space for intimate expression.
By course completion, you'll be able to express your desires confidently and naturally during intimate moments, creating deeper connection through authentic erotic communication.
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Lessons and Classes
- 1. Welcome to This Course
- 2. Address Your Fears
- 3. Affirm Your Dirty Talk
- 4. Set Yourself Up For Success
- 5. Let’s Get Aroused
- 6. Dirty Talk Phrases
- 7. Dirty Talk Key Takeaways
Your Instructor
Marla Renee Stewart
Sexologist & Intimacy Coach
As a certified sexologist with over 13 years of private practice experience, Marla has guided thousands in discovering their authentic intimate voice. Her innovative Integrative Sexuality Model, combined with her MA in Sociology focusing on Gender and Sexuality, brings a unique blend of academic expertise and practical wisdom to erotic communication. Through her work at Velvet Lips and the Sex Down South Conference, she's helped more than 20,000 individuals find confidence in expressing their desires.
Early in her career, Marla noticed how many clients struggled with verbal intimacy, despite their deep desire to connect. This observation led her to develop a revolutionary approach that combines traditional sex therapy with somatic practices like breathwork and movement. Her own journey of helping people break through communication barriers showed her that everyone has an authentic erotic voice waiting to be discovered—they just need the right guidance and support to find it.
Marla creates a judgment-free learning environment where even the shyest person can explore their erotic voice safely. Her teaching style blends evidence-based techniques with playful experimentation, allowing students to progress at their own pace while building genuine confidence. Through practical exercises and personalized guidance, she helps you develop a natural, authentic approach to intimate communication.
Course FAQ
Absolutely! Marla has specifically designed this course with beginners in mind, starting with gentle confidence-building exercises before progressing to more advanced techniques. You'll learn at your own pace, with plenty of examples and practical exercises that help you develop your unique style gradually and comfortably.
The course includes private practice exercises that help you build confidence step by step, starting with simple phrases and working up to more expressive communication. Marla teaches specific techniques for staying grounded and present, helping you move past self-consciousness to focus on authentic expression.
While having a partner can enhance your practice, this course is designed to be valuable for both singles and couples. You'll learn techniques you can practice solo to build confidence, and when you're ready, Marla provides guidance on how to introduce dirty talk with a partner in a comfortable, natural way.
Most students report feeling more confident after completing the first few lessons, which focus on finding your authentic voice and basic expression techniques. With regular practice of the course methods, you can develop a comfortable dirty talk style within a few weeks of starting the course.
Unlike generic phrase lists, this course teaches you how to develop your own authentic erotic language that feels natural to you. Marla's expertise as a sexologist ensures you learn not just what to say, but how to stay present, read partner feedback, and adjust your communication style across different situations and intensity levels.
The course includes specific modules on communication and consent, teaching you how to have open discussions about desires and boundaries with your partner. You'll learn techniques for gradual introduction and how to respect and work with different comfort levels while maintaining connection.
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