Lingam Massage

Lingam Massage Online Course

Try this tastefully filmed step-by-step online course revealing 30+ strokes & techniques for a penis massage. You’ll never call it “a job” again…

Perfect For


Single Guys

(and all penis-owners)

Single Women

(and everyone loving penises)

Beginners & Pros

Why This Course?

A Lingam massage is very different from a standard erotic massage (sometimes known as a “Happy Ending”), which usually has just one main focus: to make the man ejaculate.

This course shows you that there’s so much more to a penis massage.

Lingam massage works not only on the physical, but also on an emotional and psychological level. Both for the giver and the receiver.

For the giver it takes the “job” out of the handjob. It inserts fun and creativity into the bedroom, and deepens the intimacy.

For the receiver, not only it teaches him how to claim back control over his penis and enjoy epic orgasms, but also how to overcome many emotional blocks around his sexuality and be a better lover.

Couple laughing in bed

We’ve created the Lingam Massage Online Course not only to spark more pleasure in the world but also to inspire (self)discovery, healing and connection.

You’ll be guided through 30+ strokes and techniques with easy-to-follow and tastefully filmed visual and verbal instructions. That also includes self-massage.

If at any point you have any questions, our beducators are there for you.

You don’t need any previous experience — just come with an open mind and heart.

Many people who finished this course told us that it helped them:

Lingam Massage

What's Inside?

Techniques Library
Follow-Along Session

Module 1: The Foundations

Start with the foundations of giving and receiving a penis massage. Learn how to prepare for it, as well as how to approach it with the most helpful mindset and expectations.

Module 2: Male Sexuality

Explore male anatomy and the dance between hardness and softness. Understand male pleasure, different types of orgasm and mindful ejaculation.

Module 3: Warm-Up

Explore sensual warm-up rituals like a full-body oil massage. Whether you’re giving or receiving the massage, learn how to breathe and position to get the most out of this experience.

Module 4: Penis Massage For Couples

Play with various couple rituals, like the Lingam-Heart Connection or Edging. Discover how to finish the massage for the most blissful effect.

Module 5: Full Flow Sessions

Watch the tastefully filmed sessions on a real model, with step-by-step, professional guidance. Download a follow-along audio recording or print out the beautifully illustrated cheat sheets for your bedroom

Module 6: Penis Self-Massage

Learn the principles of self-massage. Explore the technique of Edging (also known as “riding the orgasmic waves”). Discover how to best wrap up and integrate your solo session. Download a cheat sheet for your self-practice.

Frequently Asked Questions

At Beducated we have taught this Massage to thousands of people and receive messages from happily transformed individuals and couples every single day. There’s no need to worry that you’re an exception.

If you remain curious and allow yourself to explore something new, we say: It will work for you, too!

However, if you find that this is not for you––no problem! We offer a 2-week money-back guarantee so you can rest assured that you won’t lose anything by giving it a try.

There are a few ways by which a penis massage helps penis-owners last longer in bed—we describe them in detail in the course.

But—just to give you a taste of it—one of the most important things to learn is edging:

A penis-owner should stop when they are about to ejaculate and cool down a bit. Then they can go close to that point again without going over it. Consistent training helps to push that point further and further until they can get full control of it.

The healing comes in two parts. One is through physical healing as it improves circulation and makes penis more sensitive. The second part is the emotional healing that helps the receiver feel accepted the way they are and feel no pressure to perform.

It’s a beautiful and deep practice that has the power to transform a person’s life inside-out.

Beducated is your ticket for sexual happiness! We offer a vast range of sexual wellness online courses backed by medical professionals and sex therapists. Here you can learn everything from sensual massage to kink.

We are the Netflix of sexual education. By subscribing to Beducated you get access to a library of different sexual education courses about topics like genital massage, oral sex, kink, and more. In addition, the library is constantly updated with new teachings and materials, so you can continue discovering new things.

Glad you asked! To get the free trial, choose the payment plan that interests you the most: the monthly or yearly plan. Proceed to checkout confirming your personal information, and you will get access to the whole Beducated library of courses. However, you will not be charged for the first 24 hours.

This means that you can see inside the platform and decide if it’s for you. If it is, no need to do anything—you will be fully enrolled after the 24-hour trial period is over. If you decide that the platform is not for you, all you need to do is cancel the subscription in your user dashboard within the first 24 hours of signing up (see how to do it here). Your credit card will not be charged.

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Beducated is flexible. There are no contracts, commitments, or minimum subscription time. You can easily cancel your account with a few clicks.

Beducated works on all your devices with a web browser and internet access. You can watch the course on your phone, desktop, or smart tv.

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About Beducated

Phil Steinweber und Mariah Freya
Founder Couple Mariah & Phil

We are a company dedicated to revolutionizing sexual education for grown-ups.

Let’s face it, when it comes to having a better sex life, there’s not a whole lot of useful information out there.

And we truly believe that sex is the final frontier of personal development. It’s a supercharger for our life. An opportunity to grow as an individual. To connect deeply. With ourselves. And others.

That’s why our mission is to make the world a more *bed*ucated place.

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