💦 Masturbation May Sale: Erhalte 50% Rabatt — Code: SOLO24 💦

Kinky Sex Onlinekurs:
25 Date-Ideen für ein aufregenderes Sexleben

Mit
Pleasure Mechanics
,
Somatische Sexualberaterinnen
Vogue logo

Über diesen Kurs

Von Rollenspielen bis hin zum Sinnesentzug, die Welt der Fetische ist eine spannende Möglichkeit, Abwechslung ins Schlafzimmer zu bringen. Entdecke anhand von Videokursen, Audioguides und Kinky Date Night Planern, wie du Fetische auf sichere Weise ausüben kannst.

Was du lernen wirst

  1. Kommunikationstipps für ein sicheres und sexy Fetisch-Erlebnis
  2. Date-Night Planer für mehr als 25 Abende voller Fetisch-Spaß
  3. Techniken für Sinnesspiele, Rollenspiele, Fesselspiele und mehr
  4. Wie du Fetisch-Praktiken in dein Sexleben integrierst

Entdecke diesen Kurs – und viele mehr!

An illustration of a checkbox and a graduation hat.

Lerne von den besten Expert*innen der Welt.

An illustration of a checklist and a handbook.

Schnelle Ergebnisse und einfach zu befolgende Anleitungen.

An illustration of 6 inclusive hands touching each other.

Für jeden. Singles, Paare, alle Geschlechter und Orientierungen.

Präsentiert von

Pleasure Mechanics

Somatische Sexualberaterinnen

Entdecke mit Charlotte und Chris von Pleasure Mechanics das Geheimnis sexueller Erfüllung. Die somatischen Sexualberaterinnen bieten dir vielseitige Ressourcen – von sexueller Fürsorge bis BDSM und Kink – um das ideale Sexleben zu kreieren.

Mehr von diesem Coach

Lektionen und Module

Gesamtlänge:
more than 180 min
  1. 1. Welcome Aboard!
  2. 2. How To Use This Course
  3. 3. How To Plan A Date Night
  4. 4. Kinky Communication Guide
  5. 5. How To Fantasize
  6. 6. Planning Guide to the Foundations of Kinky Sex
  7. 7. Fantasy Vs. Desire
  8. 8. Erotic Energy Play
  9. 9. The Erotic Exchange
  10. 10. The Erotic Container
  11. 11. Your Wish Is My Command
  12. 12. Planning Guide to the Sensation Play
  13. 13. Kinky Toys & Supplies Shopping Guide
  14. 14. The Sensation Matrix
  15. 15. Intensifying Sensation
  16. 16. Sensory Deprivation
  17. 17. The Edge of Pain & Pleasure
  18. 18. Sensation Play Scene
  19. 19. Planning Guide to the Erotic Roleplaying
  20. 20. Get Into Roleplaying
  21. 21. Talk Dirty To Me
  22. 22. Step Into Erotic Roleplaying
  23. 23. Go Deeper With Erotic Roleplaying
  24. 24. Sex With A Stranger (Your Lover!)
  25. 25. Planning Guide to the Erotic Power Play
  26. 26. Dominance & Submission
  27. 27. Embodying Erotic Power Play
  28. 28. Exploring Erotic Power Play
  29. 29. Safe & Sexy Erotic Bondage
  30. 30. Erotic Power Play and Bondage Date
  31. 31. 4 Alternatives To Handcuffs
  32. 32. Planning Guide to Creating Your Own Kinky Adventures
  33. 33. Rough Sex & Ravishment
  34. 34. Kinky Sex Games
  35. 35. Erotic Service
  36. 36. Erotic Trance
  37. 37. Choose Your Own Adventure
  38. 38. Ultimate Kinky Sex Date Night Planner

Warum Beducated?

Illustration of a vulva with arrows.

Lerne neue Techniken

Entwickle neue Fähigkeiten, um besser geben wie auch aktiv empfangen zu können.

Illustration of a couple lying in bed

Mehr Spaß am Sex

Erlebe atemberaubendes Vergnügen und entdecke neue Wege, dein Liebesleben aufzupeppen.

Illustration of a confident woman

Mehr Selbstvertrauen

Werde ein*e bessere Liebhaber*in, und steigere dein Selbstvertrauen im Schlafzimmer und darüber hinaus.

Schamlos. Lehrreich. Classy.

Beducated ist eine Online-Plattform, die über 100 Kurse zum Thema Sex und Beziehungen anbietet, die von den besten Expert*innen der Welt präsentiert werden.

Ein sicherer Ort für alle, unabhängig von Beziehungsstatus, sexueller Orientierung oder Geschlecht.

A laptop, tablet, and smartphone displaying Beducated online courses.

Lerne atem­be­rau­ben­den Sex in nur 5 Minuten pro Tag.

Überrasche deine Partner*in mit einer erotischen Massage, verwöhne sie/ihn mit neuen Oraltechniken oder entdecke einen neuen Kink.

Probiere Beducated einen Tag lang gratis aus und fange noch heute an zu lernen.

Nie mehr schlechten Sex!

Erhalte sofortigen Zugang zu über 100 Onlinekursen im Wert von über 15.000€. Heute mit 40% Rabatt!

MONATS-Pass
29,99 €
/Monat
Monatliche Zahlung von 29,99 € nach der gratis Testphase
Angebot!
Jahres-Pass
16.67€
9.99€
/Monat
Jährliche Zahlung von 199,99€ 119,99€ nach der gratis Testphase
A badge with the text "100% Money Back Guarantee"
Abgesichert durch unsere 14 Tage Geld-zurück-Garantie.
Falls dir Beducated nicht gefällt, sag uns innerhalb von 14 Tagen Bescheid und wir erstatten dir den vollen Kaufpreis.

9 von 10 Kunden berichten, dass Beducated ihre sexuelle Zufriedenheit gesteigert hat

"Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Suspendisse varius enim in eros elementum tristique. Duis cursus, mi quis viverra ornare."

Name Surname

Position, Company name

"Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Suspendisse varius enim in eros elementum tristique. Duis cursus, mi quis viverra ornare."

Name Surname

Position, Company name

"Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Suspendisse varius enim in eros elementum tristique. Duis cursus, mi quis viverra ornare."

Name Surname

Position, Company name

"Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Suspendisse varius enim in eros elementum tristique. Duis cursus, mi quis viverra ornare."

Name Surname

Position, Company name

"Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Suspendisse varius enim in eros elementum tristique. Duis cursus, mi quis viverra ornare."

Name Surname

Position, Company name

"Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Suspendisse varius enim in eros elementum tristique. Duis cursus, mi quis viverra ornare."

Name Surname

Position, Company name

Five green boxes with rating stars

I’m thankful for all I’ve learned. Beducated respectfully shares valuable information in a comfortable format. I say it in “our” or ”us” too because I’ve shared what I’ve learned with others. From exploring new things and ideas, helping to build our self confidence, to loving ourselves, and letting go of beliefs ingrained from our childhood/adulthood that just don’t work for us. Thank you!

Chloe
Five green boxes with rating stars

it is useful content that I’ve highly recommended to my friends to subscribe to. I’m so happy I’ve joined and am looking forward to more lessons.

Rose D
Five green boxes with rating stars

I love all the education about sex and sexuality. I love, the love and care of each teacher, educating us about the many aspects of sex.

Edgar
Five green boxes with rating stars

Beducated has taught me so much and allowed me to expand my sexual curiosity to myself, without judgement and to accept all forms of pleasures <3

Claire
Five green boxes with rating stars

Love everything about it! Have learned so so much. Made my connection to sex and intimacy so much more healthy and fun🙏🏽

Jacki
Five green boxes with rating stars

We all need a safe place to come to learn and beducated.com is that place. I am so thankful to find my community.

Eric Thompson
Five green boxes with rating stars

...but only when you are ready to make the difference yourself in making a the difference and great shift in your and your partners sexual well being and how sex is experienced.

Anne van Seters
Five green boxes with rating stars

Enjoyed all the educational videos. This is a great tool that helped me gain more confidence in my body. Highly recommended!

Jeena A.

FAQs

Du hast noch Fragen? Wir haben die Antworten:

Was ist Beducated?

Beducated ist die größte Online-Plattform für ein besseres Liebesleben.

Bei uns erhältst du Zugang zu einer einzigartigen Bibliothek aus über 100 Onlinekursen von weltweit führenden Expert*innen. Endlich ein angemessener Raum um alles über Sexualität und ein besseres Liebesleben zu lernen. Egal wie alt du bist, welche Vorlieben du hast, oder wie dein Beziehungsstatus ist – Beducated ist für dich!

Wie funktioniert die Testphase?

Gut, dass du fragst! Wenn du dich für die Testphase anmeldest bekommst du direkt Zugriff zu allen 100+ Kursen. Das heißt du kannst dir die Inhalte ansehen und entscheiden ob es was für dich ist oder nicht, bevor du bezahlst. Innerhalb der ersten 24 Stunden ist der Zugang kostenfrei.

Um die Testphase zu starten wähle den Monats- oder Jahreszugang und gehe durch den Checkout-Prozess.

Wenn Beducated das richtige für dich ist musst du nichts weiter tun – nach 24 Stunden ziehen wir die Zahlung von deinem Zahlungsmittel ein.

Wenn Beducated nichts für dich ist kannst du die Testphase in deinem Profil beenden. Es wird keine Zahlung durchgeführt und dein Zahlungsmittel wird aus unserem System entfernt.

Falls du dabei Probleme hast oder zusätzliche Fragen erreichst du uns ganz einfach unter [email protected]

Wie funktioniert das mit der Geld-zurück-Garantie?

Unsere 14 Tage Geld-zurück-Garantie erlaubt es dir, Beducated ganz ohne Risiko auszuprobieren. Das heißt, wenn du feststellst, dass Beducated nichts für dich ist, hast du zwei Wochen Zeit um den vollen Kaufpreis zurückerstattet zu bekommen. Schreib uns einfach an [email protected] innerhalb von 14 Tagen, und wir rückerstatten dir 100%. Wir können auch trotzdem Freunde bleiben!

Wie funktioniert das mit den Coupons?

Falls du eine Mitgliedsschaft während einer Rabattaktion oder anderweitig mit einem Coupon abschließt, sicherst du dir diesen Preis solange du im Abo bleibst. Das heißt der Rabatt bezieht sich auf die erste und jede weitere Zahlung die du durchführst, so lange du nicht kündigst.

Wie kündige ich meine Mitgliedschaft?

Beducated ist da ganz flexibel: Du kannst in deinem Profil mit wenigen Klicks das Abo beenden und behältst Zugang bis zum Ende deiner Vertragslaufzeit.

Welche Sprache haben die Kurse?

Bei Beducated bekommst du über 100 Onlinekurse von den weltbesten Expert*innen. Nicht alle davon sind deutschsprachig, aber wir sind dabei mehr und mehr Kurse komplett ins Deutsche zu übersetzen. Im Moment findest du einige komplett deutsche Kurse in der Bibliothek, einige Kurse mit deutscher Synchronstimme, und alle Kurse mit deutschen Untertiteln. Natürlich kannst du auch jeweils die Englischen Originale ansehen, wo vorhanden.

Transcripts

In this video, Chris demonstrates some important skills to keep in mind, while using a blindfold. Once you have the blindfold in place, every action you take must be deliberate and mindful. Your lover is in a vulnerable state, and is now in your care, so take that responsibility seriously. Here Chris approaches the receiver slowly, using the sound of her boots on the floor, to give the receiver a point of sensory reference. When playing with the blindfold, your first touch is essential to set the tone of the scene. Use the whole hand melt technique, to slowly introduce your touch. Then use light or moderate pressure glides to create lots of skin to skin contact. This will turn their attention inward, and give them a chance to relax into your touch. Notice how Chris is using very firm pressure in her touch. This kind of pressure can be very reassuring and comforting while wearing a blindfold. It's a way of saying, relax I've got you, with your touch. One of the fun parts of using a blindfold is creating surprise and anticipation. You can also make your partner feel your presence, with a well-placed knee. By sliding her knee in between the receivers legs, Chris is making her presence known and introducing some arousing stimulation without shocking, direct touch. Remember if your lover is on a chair, make sure to maintain control of that chair and don't let it rock as this will make your partner feel unstable and unsafe. Use your body weight deliberately and intentionally at all times. With your full attention and care, you can create surprise and pleasure without startling or jolting your lover in an unpleasant way. One of the easiest ways to play with surprise is to get them accustomed to one sensation and then surprise them with a contrast. First, she uses the softness of a furr glove to create a smooth, comforting sensation, then quickly contrasts that softness, with the intense sharpness of Wartenberg wheel. Notice the surprise that comes with this contrast. By alternating two very different sensations, you capture your lover's attention and keep them guessing, contrast also helps keep the nerve endings alert and ready for new stimulation. (soft moaning) Doing the same thing over and over dulls the senses, contrast awakens the skin and keeps things interesting. You can also create contrast with toys and your hands. (soft moaning) A light feathery tickle creates a fascinating contrast, for deep penetrating funds using loose open fists and the back of the hand. Notice how Chris is keeping her hands relaxed, as she makes impact with the chest. This creates a nice heavy impact without risking injury. (heavy moaning) (heavy tapping) Stroking your lover's face is normally quite a tender act. And with a blindfold, it is even more intimate. Make this kind of touch very purposeful and deliberate, stroking the lips with an object and kissing are also intensified with a blindfold on. Your lover will feel you approach their face, with the heightened awareness that comes with shutting down the sense of sight. Giving the receiver something to hold in their mouth, demands that they say alert and pay attention. - That's what it is. Good girl. - [Narrator] Please only put pleasant, clean objects in their mouth, unless you have pre-negotiated otherwise. To add another layer of sensory deprivation, you can add earplugs to a blindfold scene. This will deepen the receiver's focus internally, when you first start to play with gags, make sure to use something that can easily be spit out if needed. Once you get used to playing with gags, you can explore toys specifically designed for this purpose. For now panties or a tie, make a good starter gag and have a bit of a naughty factor built in. Gags can be fun because they give you permission to make a bit of extra noise. When you introduce a new toy, you can either just surprise your lover with it altogether, or give them a chance to build anticipation, by stroking the toy against their skin before using it. This is a way of saying this is what is coming next so their brain can start anticipating the new kind of stimulation. Now Chris moves towards a climax of the mini scene, by using canes to create the most intense sensations of the session. Using this toy, she slowly builds up intensity, and finishes with a few intense strokes. (heavy moaning) (heavy moaning) Immediately, she connects using body contact and touch to help ground the receiver, as she processes the intense sensations bringing this mini session to a close. - [Instructor] Giver, get comfortable, seated on a couch or a bed. Receiver, position yourself over your lover's lap with your head towards their non-dominant hand. Use pillows to cushion your chest or any other adjustments, so you are both comfortable and can really relax. Start with light strokes all over the butt and lower back. Take your time and give the recipient's body a few moments to warm up to your touch. Now, using a cupped hand, start spanking very lightly. Moving your hand around to cover the entire surface of the butt. Slowly bring up the intensity of the spanks. Cupped hands give a more thuddy, dull sensation. Open hands spanks are a stinging sensation. Recipient, pay full attention to the sensations of the spanking. When the sensations start getting just a little bit painful say when. - [Receiver] When. - [Instructor] As soon as you hear when, make the sensations less intense but keep spanking, then bring up the intensity again. Recipient, say when, as soon as it feels right on the edge of too intense. Repeat this process. Giver, start noticing the body language as you bring up the intensity. - [Receiver] When! - [Instructor] Watch the breath, muscle tone and sounds your lover is making. The goal is that you will begin anticipating the when before it is said. When you are ready to be done, do one final round of building intensity. (Receiver moans) - [Receiver] When! - I'm gonna finish with five little ones. - [Instructor] Give five to 10 firm spanks at that same level of maximum intensity, and then stop. Receiver, breathe deeply through this. To end the spanking session, either hold your hands still or stroke the skin to end the spanking session. - Hey, this is Chris from PleasureMechanics.com, and here are four alternatives to handcuffs. Handcuffs used for bondage have this kind of reputation as being sexy, but they're really not. They're designed to tighten as you struggle against them, which leads to some dangerous circulation issues. And they're hard, sharp metal. And they're designed as a tool of punishment, not a tool of pleasure. So I really encourage you if you're exploring bondage to think beyond handcuffs and explore the alternatives, and here are four fabulous, sexy ways to restrain your lover. One is the classic leather cuffs. Leather cuffs come in all sorts of styles and colors, and are fur-lined or whatever. But the general idea is that cuffs can be fit around the wrist or the ankles, they're highly adjustable. They come with D-rings that can be used to secure them to one another, or to a bed frame, and they can be struggled against. You can wear these and really pull and tug and resist your bondage in a sexy way, and you won't get hurt, and you can wear them for hours and they're totally safe and totally amazing. A lot of people find leather really sexy, and if you do, then you might really enjoy the experience of being cuffed. If you want something a little softer, there are some really beautiful, beautiful bondage toys coming on the market. One of our favorite companies, LELO makes this beautiful set. They come in this gorgeous box, which is this lovely presentation for your lover. And there are these beautiful satin ties. And they come in a set of two, and one end is weighted, and the other end has these nice O-rings. And you simply string 'em through, and then you have a nice, secure bond. So you can restrain body parts to one another. You can use this to wrap around a bed frame or a chair, and they're highly adjustable. So they're really, really versatile, and you've got your lover and you can also use it kind of as like tug on them. And they're not gonna break, they're super strong. And they're really, really beautiful. They come in a couple of different colors, but they have this beautiful, textured satin that will make your lover feel really loved and cherished and cared for. And these are great for people who wanna explore bondage but in a much softer way, as a kind of form of body worship and a form of reverence, rather than more of the rough and tumble bondage style, right? Another option that's amazing is bondage tape. And this is available at any BDSM store. A lot of sex stores are starting to carry it, and it comes in these big, beautiful rolls with lots of different colors. And it's just this plastic tape, but what's amazing about it is it only sticks to itself. It won't stick to your skin or hair. And so you can use it to put body parts together, do a body part against a bed or furniture, and it comes off really easily and pain free. You can even use it for blindfolds because it won't stick to your hair, right, or it won't stick to your skin. So it's super versatile, really cheap, and it can be reused if you want. And it's a great alternative to cuffs or to ties. If you want more versatility and you want kinda more of that wrapped up feel. And finally, the last option comes to us from the veterinarian world of all places. It's called vet-wrap. It's used for horses mostly, but it's this really stretchy tape. And like the bondage wrap, it doesn't stick to skin or hair. It only sticks to itself. But the added bonus here is it has a really amazing compression. And so you can use it for bondage and it creates this sensation of being like hugged and squeezed all over while you're using it. And a lot of people find that really pleasurable. Again, it comes in a lot of different colors, it's super cheap. I think this whole roll was about five bucks, and you can use it again and again. And then when it gets a little mcnasty, you can throw it out and start again. We love all these alternatives to bondage, because the sensation of being restrained is really, really sexy for a lot of people. And there are really great alternatives to things like handcuffs. So you can find a method of bondage and a restraint that fits your overall sexual aesthetic, fits the kind of mood you're in with your lover, and adds a lot of sensuality and versatility to your sex life. So if you're interested in bondage, definitely explore these options and leave the handcuffs to the cops. They're best in their hands as a tool of restraint and punishment. For restraint and pleasure, explore these options and more. Check out the links below for some links to some great stores that carry these products. And for more information on bondage and power games in the bedroom. Cheers.

beducated logo
Erhalte das beste Sexpert*innen-Wissen direkt in dein Postfach – Melde dich für unseren Newsletter an:
Mit Liebe in München gemacht.
© 2024 Beducated GmbH. Alle Rechte vorbehalten.
By clicking “Accept”, you agree to the storing of cookies on your device to enhance site navigation, analyze site usage, and assist in our marketing efforts. View our Privacy Policy for more information.