About This Course
Your Struggles, Solved
The fusion of Tantra and BDSM creates a powerful pathway to both spiritual connection and primal pleasure. Yet many couples struggle to navigate this transformative intersection.
You're likely facing:
- Shame Around Desires - You feel conflicted about your kink interests, unsure if they can coexist with spiritual or relationship goals.
- Communication Barriers - You struggle to clearly express boundaries and desires, creating missed opportunities for deeper connection.
- Sacred/Sexual Disconnect - You experience sexuality and spirituality as separate realms, missing their potential to enhance each other.
This course teaches you how to honor your body as a sacred vessel while exploring power dynamics that awaken deeper desire. You'll learn practical tools like the Traffic Light System for clear consent and tantric breathing techniques that bridge physical and spiritual experiences. By blending these worlds, you'll discover new pathways to self-acceptance, authentic expression, and profound intimacy.
What You Will Learn
"Tantric Kink creates a sacred container where you can explore your deepest desires while honoring both yourself and your partner as divine beings."
— Luna Agneya & Sanya Alaya, Tantric Kink Educators
Sacred Desire Integration
- Desire Reframing Techniques - Transform shame into self-acceptance by understanding how traditional kink practices connect to spiritual energy work.
- Conscious Power Exchange - Learn how dominance and submission can become pathways to spiritual connection rather than conflicting with relationship values.
Embodied Communication
- Traffic Light Consent System - Master this practical framework for expressing boundaries clearly and confidently during intimate power play.
- Negotiation Rituals - Create sacred pre-scene discussions that deepen trust while ensuring both partners' needs and limits are honored.
Spiritual-Physical Integration
- Tantric Breath Work - Harness breathing techniques that intensify physical sensation while maintaining spiritual presence during intense experiences.
- Energy Circulation Practices - Direct sexual energy throughout your body to transform physical pleasure into transcendent, whole-body experiences.
By the end of this course, you'll confidently blend spiritual connection with primal pleasure, creating a uniquely authentic intimate expression that honors both your desires and your deepest values.
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Lessons and Classes
- 1. What Tantra and Kink Have In Common
- 2. Benefits of Kink, BDSM, and Tantra
- 3. Choosing Your Partner
- 4. Introduction to Communication
- 5. Inner Attitude
- 6. How to Start a Session by Checking-in
- 7. Traffic Light System and Safe words
- 8. Aftercare for Bottoms and Tops
- 9. Intro to Partner Play and Dynamics
- 10. Finding Common Ground
- 11. Intro to Connection Exercises
- 12. Eye Gazing
- 13. The 3-Minute Game
- 14. Heart to Heart Breathing
- 15. Somatic Secret & Fantasy Sharing
- 16. Intro Talk About Ideas and Options
- 17. Bossy Massage
- 18. Dom/Sub Exercise Demo
- 19. Introduction to Impact Play
- 20. Impact Ritual
- 21. The Power of Breath, Sounds, and Movement
- 22. Microcosmic Orbit for Partners
- 23. Spreading Energy
- 24. Introduction to the World of Senses
- 25. Sensory Activation
- 26. Sensory Deprivation
- 27. Breath Play
- 28. Intro to Resourcing and Emotional Care
- 29. Moving Emotions
- 30. Emotional Transfiguration
- 31. Closure
Your Instructor
Luna Agneya & Sanya Alaya
Sexologist & Sex, Love & Relationship Coach
Luna and Sanya are pioneering experts in the integration of Tantra and BDSM with over 15 years of combined experience. Luna, a Certified Sex Coach and Somatic Sexological Bodyworker, founded the Sensual Arts School, while Sanya, a certified Sexological Bodyworker and VITA™ Sex/Love Coach, created Women's Empleasurement®. Their innovative Traffic Light System for BDSM consent has helped thousands explore power dynamics safely.
Luna's journey began in the adult entertainment industry, where she witnessed both the power and limitations of conventional approaches to sexuality. Meanwhile, Sanya developed her trauma-informed methods after discovering how tantric practices transformed her experience with chronic pain. Together, they recognized that the seemingly opposite worlds of sacred tantra and explorative BDSM could create something revolutionary when thoughtfully combined. This realization sparked their mission to create a practice honoring both the primal and divine aspects of human sexuality.
Luna and Sanya's approach is grounded in their belief that our bodies are sacred vessels for both spiritual connection and primal pleasure. They create judgment-free learning environments where curiosity is encouraged and personal boundaries are honored. Their step-by-step methodology integrates breathing techniques, energy work, and clear consent practices, making these transformative experiences accessible regardless of your previous experience with either tradition.
Course FAQ
Not at all! Luna and Sanya have designed this course with all experience levels in mind. They start with foundational concepts for both practices before building toward their integration. Whether you're curious beginners or have experience in one practice but not the other, the step-by-step approach ensures you can follow along comfortably at your own pace.
The course is structured to help you build confidence gradually. You'll start with the Traffic Light System for clear consent and communication before moving into more intensive practices. Luna and Sanya recommend beginning with the breathing techniques and negotiation rituals to establish trust and comfort, then experimenting with just one new element at a time. Remember that integration is a journey, not a destination.
While having a partner allows for immediate practice of certain techniques, singles will gain tremendous value too. The self-acceptance work, breath practices, and energy circulation techniques can all be practiced solo to develop your personal relationship with tantric kink. When you do connect with a partner, you'll bring a deeper self-awareness and clearer communication skills to the experience.
Students typically report three primary shifts: reduced shame around desires, more confident communication about boundaries and needs, and a richer sensation experience during intimate encounters. The integration of tantric breathing with power play often creates more present, connected experiences within just a few practice sessions, though mastering the full integration is an ongoing journey that continues to deepen over time.
Traditional BDSM often focuses primarily on physical sensation and power exchange, while Tantra centers on spiritual connection and energy work. This unique integration taught by Luna and Sanya creates a "sacred container" for power play that honors both the primal and the divine aspects of your sexuality. You'll learn to infuse BDSM practices with intentionality and presence while giving your tantric practice an embodied, expressive dimension that many traditional approaches lack.
Absolutely! The Negotiation Rituals and Traffic Light System are specifically designed to honor different comfort levels and find mutually satisfying expressions. Luna and Sanya provide variations for each practice, allowing you to adjust the intensity while maintaining the core benefits. Many couples find that framing kink through a tantric lens makes it more accessible to partners who might be hesitant about traditional BDSM approaches.
This is a common and valid concern that Luna and Sanya directly address. Rather than imposing spiritual concepts onto kink practices, they help you discover the inherent connections between them—like how power exchange can create transcendent surrender and how intense sensation can anchor you in the present moment. The course emphasizes finding your authentic expression rather than following rigid formulas, allowing you to integrate elements that resonate with your unique desires and values.
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