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Solving Premature Ejaculation Online Course:
Last Longer in Bed

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The Intimacy Institute
,
Sexologist & Sex Therapist
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About This Course

Early ejaculation doesn’t have to stand in the way of a satisfying sex life! Learn to last longer in bed with expert advice, practical exercises, and easy-to-follow video lessons.

Your Struggles, Solved

Premature ejaculation affects your confidence, intimacy, and relationship satisfaction. This course offers proven techniques to regain control and transform your sexual experiences.

You're likely facing:
  • Fight-or-Flight Response - Your nervous system triggers a "get in and out quickly" reaction during intimacy, making control nearly impossible.
  • The Murky Middle - You jump from low arousal to the point of no return too quickly, missing crucial awareness of mid-level arousal.
  • Performance Pressure - Anxiety about disappointing your partner creates a cycle of stress that actually worsens the problem.

This course teaches you practical techniques to regulate your arousal through diaphragmatic breathing and progressive muscle relaxation. You'll learn how to retrain your masturbation habits, build awareness of your arousal spectrum, and engage your parasympathetic nervous system for lasting control. These evidence-based approaches can transform quick encounters into satisfying, marathon-like experiences.

What You Will Learn

"Our evidence-based techniques will help you transform quick encounters into satisfying, marathon-like experiences by understanding and mastering your own arousal patterns."

— Dr. Jenni Skyler, The Intimacy Institute

Arousal Awareness & Control
  • Arousal Spectrum Recognition - Learn to identify and navigate the "murky middle" between low arousal and the point of no return.
  • Parasympathetic Activation Techniques - Master methods to counteract your fight-or-flight response during intimacy for better control.
Practical Physical Techniques
  • Diaphragmatic Breathing - Develop breathing patterns that regulate your nervous system and extend your pleasure plateau.
  • Progressive Muscle Relaxation - Learn to release tension in key muscle groups that trigger premature ejaculation.
Mental & Behavioral Training
  • Masturbation Retraining - Rebuild your solo practices to develop lasting power that transfers to partnered intimacy.
  • Performance Anxiety Management - Break the cycle of stress and worry that accelerates arousal and shortens your experience.

You'll gain the confidence to maintain control throughout intimate encounters, extending your pleasure and your partner's satisfaction without anxiety or pressure.

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For everyone. Singles, couples, all genders and orientations.

Lessons and Classes

Total length:
60-90 min
  1. 1. Course Introduction
  2. 2. The Impact of the Nervous System
  3. 3. Thinking With the Other Head
  4. 4. Understanding Physiological Changes
  5. 5. Exercise: Breathing
  6. 6. Exercise: Progressive Muscle Relaxation
  7. 7. Changing Up Masturbation
  8. 8. Exercise: The Middle Zone
  9. 9. Using Guided Imagery
  10. 10. How to Involve Your Partner
  11. 11. Direct Action Statements
  12. 12. Premature Ejaculation FAQ

Your Instructor

The Intimacy Institute

Sexologist & Sex Therapist

Dr. Jenni Skyler and Daniel Lebowitz bring 14+ years of expertise as founders of The Intimacy Institute, where they've helped thousands overcome sexual challenges. Dr. Skyler, a Board-Certified Sexologist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, collaborates with Daniel, who holds a masters in Marriage and Family Therapy with specialization in masculinity patterns—making them uniquely qualified to address premature ejaculation.

As a married couple, Jenni and Daniel discovered that conventional approaches to intimacy problems often fell short when facing their own relationship hurdles. This personal journey revealed how deeply emotional and physical intimacy are connected, especially regarding performance challenges like premature ejaculation. Their frustration with textbook solutions that missed the emotional roots of sexual disconnection drove them to develop a more holistic approach that treats both the physical techniques and psychological components.

Through their pioneering co-therapy model, Jenni and Daniel teach practical techniques while addressing the underlying anxiety and fight-or-flight responses that trigger premature ejaculation. Their Intimacy Roadmap Framework combines clinical expertise with real-world wisdom, delivered like supportive friends guiding you through each step of mastering arousal awareness and control. This balance of evidence-based methods and emotional intelligence makes complex sexual challenges approachable.

Course FAQ

Is this course appropriate for complete beginners who have always struggled with premature ejaculation?

Absolutely! This course is designed specifically for men at all experience levels, including those who have struggled with premature ejaculation their entire lives. Dr. Jenni Skyler starts with fundamental concepts like understanding your arousal spectrum before progressing to more advanced techniques. You'll build skills progressively, with clear guidance for implementing each technique regardless of your starting point.

How soon can I expect to see improvements in my stamina?

Many students report noticeable improvements within 2-3 weeks of consistent practice with the masturbation retraining techniques. The breathing and progressive muscle relaxation methods can show benefits even sooner, often within your first few intimate encounters. Remember that this is a skill-building process—consistency with the practices is key to developing lasting control that becomes second nature.

Do I need a partner to complete this course, or can I practice these techniques on my own?

You can absolutely complete this course and see significant benefits practicing solo. In fact, the masturbation retraining techniques are designed specifically for individual practice to build your foundation of control. Once you've developed some confidence with these skills, you can gradually incorporate them into partnered experiences, but there's no rush or requirement to involve a partner while learning.

How do I introduce these techniques during actual intimacy without making things awkward?

The course includes specific guidance for seamlessly integrating techniques like diaphragmatic breathing and progressive muscle relaxation during intimate moments. You'll learn how to incorporate these practices naturally, without disrupting the flow or mood. The Intimacy Institute has designed these techniques to be subtle yet effective, allowing you to maintain connection with your partner while managing your arousal response.

If I've tried other methods before without success, what makes this approach different?

Unlike quick-fix approaches that focus only on distraction or numbing, this program addresses the root causes of premature ejaculation by retraining your nervous system response. The Intimacy Institute's method is unique because it combines physical techniques (breathing, muscle control) with psychological elements (anxiety management, arousal awareness) for a comprehensive solution. This evidence-based approach targets the "fight-or-flight" response and builds awareness of the crucial "murky middle" that most other programs overlook.

My partner doesn't know I'm taking this course. Should I tell them?

While complete transparency is always an option, many men successfully implement these techniques without explicitly discussing their learning process. The breathing and muscle relaxation methods can be practiced discreetly during intimacy without drawing attention. That said, the course includes suggestions for how to communicate with your partner if you choose to share your journey, which can often lead to greater intimacy and mutual support.

Will these techniques feel unnatural or disrupt the spontaneity of sex?

Initially, any new skill requires some conscious attention, but with practice, these techniques become second nature. Dr. Jenni Skyler has specifically designed these methods to integrate smoothly into natural sexual experiences. Many students report that after a few weeks of practice, the techniques become automatic, actually enhancing spontaneity because they no longer need to worry about premature ejaculation interrupting their experience.

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