







About This Course
Your Struggles, Solved
Mutual masturbation unlocks a new dimension of intimacy that most couples never explore. It's where vulnerability meets pleasure, creating profound connection beyond traditional intimacy.
You're likely facing:
- Self-Consciousness Barriers - The thought of pleasuring yourself while your partner watches triggers vulnerability and anxiety about your body and expressions.
- Performance Pressure - You worry about "putting on a show" rather than experiencing genuine pleasure in front of your partner.
- Limited Self-Awareness - Years of quick, goal-oriented masturbation has disconnected you from truly understanding your own pleasure patterns.
This course teaches you tantric self-exploration techniques that expand pleasure beyond your genitals to your entire body. You'll learn mindful witnessing practices that transform vulnerability into deep connection. Through guided exercises, you'll develop the skills to release expectations and performance anxiety, creating space for authentic expression and mutual discovery.
What You Will Learn
"Mutual masturbation creates a sacred space where you witness each other's pleasure in its rawest form, building trust and intimacy beyond what traditional sex offers."
— Yves Bonroy, Intimacy Coach
Overcoming Vulnerability Barriers
- Conscious Exposure Techniques - Gradual methods to comfortably reveal yourself during self-pleasure, transforming anxiety into empowering vulnerability.
- Body-Positive Mindfulness - Practices to appreciate your body's natural responses during arousal, replacing self-judgment with celebration.
Authentic Pleasure Connection
- Presence Over Performance - Strategies to release the "show" mentality and immerse in genuine sensation without audience awareness.
- Tantric Breathing Synchronization - Methods to harmonize your breath with your partner's, creating energetic connection during separate physical experiences.
Full-Body Self-Exploration
- Pleasure Mapping Exercise - Systematic techniques to discover forgotten erogenous zones beyond your genitals, expanding your pleasure potential.
- Sensory Enhancement Practices - Methods to heighten sensation through mindful touch, temperature play, and rhythmic variation.
By course completion, you'll transform masturbation from a private activity into a profound shared experience that deepens intimacy through vulnerable authenticity.
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Lessons and Classes
- 1. Welcome to This Course
- 2. Fears and Desires
- 3. Solo Pleasure
- 4. Sacred Self Pleasure Ritual
- 5. Self Pleasuring Together
Your Instructor

Yves Bonroy
Sexual Wellness Coach
Yves Bonroy is a certified Psychosexual Somatics Therapist with over 10,000 coaching hours specializing in tantric sexuality and embodied intimacy. His unique Sexual Fitness framework bridges ancient tantric wisdom with modern neuroscience, creating practical pathways to deeper connection that have transformed thousands of couples' intimate experiences.
Yves' journey began in courtrooms, not bedrooms—as a former attorney who felt a deeper calling. After experiencing firsthand how mainstream approaches to sex often miss the essential ingredient of presence, he spent a decade as a professional tantric bodyworker traveling through temples across Asia and Europe. This immersive experience revealed to him that vulnerability, not technique, creates the profound connection most couples crave but rarely find.
Yves specializes in breaking down complex energetic concepts into playful, accessible practices that create immediate shifts. His approach combines tantric breathing synchronization, mindful witnessing, and full-body exploration techniques that free couples from performance pressure. As he often says, "Most couples aren't struggling with technique—they're struggling with presence."
Course FAQ
This course is specifically designed for all experience levels, including complete beginners. Yves Bonroy has structured the journey with gradual steps that build comfort and confidence, starting with simple conscious exposure techniques before progressing to more intimate practices. Many couples actually find mutual masturbation to be an excellent gateway to deeper intimacy precisely because it begins with what you already know - your own body.
The course directly addresses these natural feelings through its body-positive mindfulness practices and gradual exposure techniques. Yves guides you through specific exercises that start in your comfort zone and slowly expand it, allowing vulnerability to build at your own pace. Many students report that the tantric breathing synchronization becomes an anchor that helps overcome self-consciousness by creating connection even when feeling exposed.
While the practice ultimately involves both partners, you can absolutely take this course individually first to develop your comfort and understanding. In fact, many students find personal preparation helps them introduce these concepts more confidently to their partner. The pleasure mapping exercises can be practiced solo, giving you personal insights to later share, though the full transformative experience comes when both partners participate.
Most couples report experiencing meaningful shifts after completing the first two modules, particularly in communication openness and comfort with vulnerability. The full-body exploration techniques typically expand pleasure awareness within the first few weeks of consistent practice. Remember that this journey is less about reaching a destination and more about the ongoing discovery that unfolds as you practice the techniques together.
Unlike other intimate practices, mutual masturbation creates a unique dynamic where you become both participant and witness. This course leverages this special dynamic through tantric approaches that transform what could be merely physical into a profound energetic exchange. As Yves explains, witnessing your partner's unfiltered pleasure patterns reveals intimacy layers that remain hidden during partnered sex, creating a vulnerability bridge that deepens connection in all aspects of your relationship.
This concern is exactly why Yves developed the "Presence Over Performance" module. You'll learn specific techniques to release the pressure of "putting on a show" and instead focus on authentic sensation. The course includes mindfulness exercises that anchor you in genuine pleasure rather than self-consciousness, plus communication frameworks to express needs and boundaries that keep both partners comfortable.
Absolutely - rekindling body connection is a cornerstone of this course. The pleasure mapping exercises specifically address how years of goal-oriented self-pleasure can disconnect us from our full sensual potential. Through systematic exploration of forgotten erogenous zones and sensory enhancement practices, you'll rediscover your body's capacity for pleasure while simultaneously creating a safe space for your partner to do the same.
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