About This Course
Your Struggles, Solved
Online dating can feel overwhelming and discouraging. Whether you're getting ghosted, struggling with matches, or feeling lost in the digital dating world, you're not alone.
You're likely facing:
- Profile Paralysis - Struggling to create an authentic dating profile that attracts the right matches while truly representing who you are.
- Conversation Dead Ends - Finding it difficult to maintain engaging conversations that actually lead to meaningful connections and real-life dates.
- Dating App Burnout - Feeling exhausted and discouraged by endless swiping, rejection, and matches that don't align with your relationship goals.
This course teaches you proven strategies to optimize your dating profile, master authentic conversations, and approach online dating with renewed confidence. You'll learn techniques for setting clear intentions, managing expectations, and creating genuine connections that align with your goals. Through practical exercises and mindset shifts, you'll transform your dating experience from frustrating to empowering.
What You Will Learn
"Transform your online dating experience from frustrating to empowering by mastering authentic self-presentation and meaningful connection strategies that actually work."
— Lilian Czolbe, Dating Coach & Communication Expert
Profile Optimization
- Authentic Self-Presentation - Create a compelling profile that genuinely represents you while attracting compatible matches through strategic photo selection and bio writing.
- Profile Psychology - Learn which elements catch attention and inspire meaningful connections, moving beyond surface-level appeal to showcase your unique value.
Conversation Mastery
- Engaging Dialogue Techniques - Master the art of crafting messages that spark genuine interest and maintain momentum in conversations.
- Connection Building - Transform matches into meaningful conversations using proven communication strategies that lead to real-life dates.
Strategic Dating Success
- Intention Setting - Develop clear dating goals and boundaries to avoid burnout and attract partners aligned with your relationship vision.
- Digital Dating Management - Learn efficient strategies for managing multiple conversations while maintaining authentic connections and emotional energy.
By the end of this course, you'll confidently navigate online dating platforms with a strategic approach that attracts genuine connections aligned with your relationship goals.
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Lessons and Classes
- 1. Welcome to It’s a Match!
- 2. Introducing the Protagonists
- 3. Intentional Profile Creation
- 4. The Art of Swiping
- 5. From First to Last Message
- 6. The First Date
- 7. Dealing With Rejection
- 8. Managing Your Expectations
- 9. Growth Through Online Dating
Your Instructor
Lilian Czolbe
Systemic & Intimacy Coach
As a Certified Systemic Coach and Intimacy Coach, Lilian has developed the groundbreaking "Growth Through Dating" framework that transforms digital dating frustrations into meaningful connections. Her expertise has made her a go-to authority for platforms like Bored Panda, while her YouTube channel and Beducated Magazine contributions have helped thousands navigate modern dating challenges.
Witnessing countless incredible people become discouraged and burned out by dating apps that should bring joy, not anxiety, Lilian became determined to change the narrative. She discovered that vulnerability, often seen as a weakness in dating, could actually be transformed into a superpower. This revelation led her to develop a unique approach that combines psychological insight with practical strategy, turning her own understanding into a systematic method for dating success.
Lilian's teaching style blends candid conversations with actionable exercises, breaking down complex dating dynamics into manageable steps. She focuses on both inner work and outer techniques, ensuring students don't just get better matches, but experience a complete transformation in their relationship with dating itself. Her approach emphasizes authenticity while providing clear, strategic frameworks for success.
Course FAQ
Absolutely! Lilian designed this course to support both newcomers and those with dating app experience. You'll start with the fundamentals of profile creation and gradually build up to advanced conversation techniques, with clear, actionable steps at every stage. The course particularly helps beginners avoid common pitfalls while building confidence from the ground up.
Students typically notice positive changes as soon as they implement the profile optimization strategies taught in the first modules. While meaningful connections take time to develop, you'll have immediate access to conversation templates and engagement techniques that you can start using right away. Many students report feeling more confident and in control of their dating experience within the first week of applying these strategies.
This course goes beyond generic "dos and don'ts" to provide a comprehensive strategy based on profile psychology and authentic communication techniques. Lilian's approach combines proven conversation strategies with practical tools for managing dating app burnout, helping you create genuine connections while maintaining your emotional well-being. You'll learn not just what to do, but why certain approaches work and how to adapt them to your unique personality and goals.
The course includes specific modules on managing dating app burnout and setting healthy boundaries. Lilian guides you through gradual implementation steps that feel manageable and authentic, helping you rebuild confidence at your own pace. You'll learn how to approach online dating strategically rather than emotionally, with clear systems for managing your time and energy.
Yes! The principles and strategies taught in this course are platform-independent and work across all major dating apps. While Lilian provides specific tips for popular platforms like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge, the core communication and profile optimization techniques are effective regardless of which app you prefer to use.
Definitely! The course specifically addresses how to align your profile and communication style with your relationship goals, whether casual or serious. You'll learn how to clearly communicate your intentions and identify compatible matches who share your relationship vision, helping you avoid mismatched connections and focus your energy on promising potential partners.
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