About This Course
Your Struggles, Solved
Your words have untapped erotic potential. Dirty talk isn't just about being explicit – it's your direct pathway to deeper intimacy, staying present, and communicating desires effectively.
You're likely facing:
- Fear of Sounding Cheesy - You worry your attempts at dirty talk will come across as forced or unnatural, leading to self-judgment and hesitation.
- Difficulty Staying Present - Your mind wanders during intimate moments, thinking about your to-do list or body insecurities instead of the pleasure at hand.
- Awkward Communication - You struggle to express what you want or give feedback without making it feel like criticism or breaking the mood.
This course teaches you specific dirty talk techniques like narration, permission, and desire expression that transform awkward moments into opportunities for connection. You'll learn how to use "verbal lube" to guide partners toward mutual pleasure while staying anchored in the moment. With practice, you'll develop the confidence to communicate desires playfully rather than performatively.
What You Will Learn
"Dirty talk is your verbal lube - it reduces friction in communication, helps you express desires authentically, and creates deeper connection through pleasurable, present interaction."
— Luna Matatas, Sex Educator & Dirty Talk Expert
Express Desires Confidently
- Authentic Dirty Talk Scripts - Master customizable phrases that feel natural coming from your mouth, eliminating the fear of sounding cheesy or forced.
- Feedback Communication Techniques - Learn how to guide partners toward what feels good without criticism, transforming awkward moments into playful direction.
Stay Present During Intimacy
- Sensory Narration Skills - Describe what you see, feel, and desire in the moment to anchor your attention and amplify pleasure for both partners.
- Mindful Communication Practices - Use specific verbal techniques that redirect wandering thoughts back to the sensations and connection you're experiencing.
Deepen Intimate Connection
- Permission & Desire Expression - Craft statements that clearly communicate boundaries while kindling anticipation and building erotic tension.
- Personalized Dirty Talk Style - Develop your unique approach to verbal intimacy that matches your personality, relationship dynamic, and comfort level.
You'll transform from hesitant communicator to confident guide in the bedroom, using personalized verbal techniques that enhance pleasure, deepen connection, and keep you fully present.
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Lessons and Classes
- 1. Welcome to Dirty Talk
- 2. The Benefits of Dirty Talk
- 3. Getting Comfortable With Dirty Talk
- 4. How to Get Started With Dirty Talk
- 5. The 7 Types of Dirty Talk
- 6. 3 Ways to Influence Delivery
- 7. Dirty Talk Phrases
- 8. Timing
- 9. Words & Context
- 10. Practice Tipps
Your Instructor
Luna Matatas
Sex & Pleasure Educator
Luna Matatas is a seasoned pleasure revolutionary with over 15 years of experience teaching intimate communication and sexual confidence. Her trauma-informed approach to dirty talk has helped thousands transform their bedroom dialogue from awkward to empowering, making her a sought-after educator across North American universities and host of The Plug Podcast.
Luna's passion for teaching dirty talk stems from recognizing how traditional sex education overlooks the power of verbal communication in pleasure. After witnessing countless couples struggle with expressing desires, she developed her signature "verbal lube" approach that bridges the gap between what we want and how we ask for it. This framework emerged from her own journey of discovering how words can transform intimate experiences from disconnected to deeply present.
Luna's teaching style combines playful humor with practical wisdom, creating judgment-free zones where curiosity is celebrated. She focuses on authenticity over performance, providing customizable frameworks rather than scripted lines. By integrating mindfulness techniques with communication skills, Luna helps you develop dirty talk that feels natural to your unique personality while keeping you anchored in the moment.
Course FAQ
This course is designed specifically with beginners in mind! Luna walks you through progressively building your confidence, starting with simple techniques like sensory narration before moving to more expressive forms. You'll receive customizable scripts and frameworks that feel authentic to your personality, making the learning curve gentle and natural.
Luna provides practical implementation strategies that ease you into comfortable practice. You'll learn how to start with low-pressure situations (like texting or whispering outside the bedroom) before incorporating techniques during intimacy. The course includes specific exercises designed to build your confidence gradually, allowing awkwardness to naturally dissolve as you find your authentic dirty talk style.
Not at all! While you can certainly practice with a partner, many exercises are designed for solo exploration to build your confidence privately first. The verbal techniques you'll learn enhance self-awareness and expression that benefit you regardless of relationship status. If you do have a partner, Luna offers specific suggestions for introducing these new skills in ways that feel natural.
Most students report feeling noticeably more comfortable after implementing just 2-3 of Luna's starter techniques, which you can begin using immediately after the course. The complete transformation varies from person to person, but the course is structured to provide quick wins while building toward lasting confidence. You'll develop a progressive toolkit that grows with your comfort level.
Luna's signature "verbal lube" approach focuses on authenticity rather than performance. Unlike generic dirty talk guides, this course helps you develop a personalized style that matches your unique personality and relationship dynamics. Luna combines practical scripts with mindfulness techniques that keep you present during intimacy, addressing both the "what to say" and the deeper "how to stay connected" aspects of intimate communication.
The course addresses this common concern directly, teaching you how to introduce verbal techniques gradually and responsively. You'll learn how to use "temperature checks" to gauge comfort levels and adapt accordingly. Many of Luna's techniques, like sensory narration and mindful communication, can enhance intimacy even with partners who aren't initially drawn to explicit talk.
Absolutely! This course specifically addresses the challenge of staying present during intimacy. Luna's sensory narration techniques and mindful communication practices are designed to anchor your attention to the moment, reducing mental wandering. You'll learn simple frameworks that help you find words even when your mind would typically go blank, turning potential awkward silences into opportunities for deeper connection.
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