







About This Course
Your Struggles, Solved
Building a lasting romantic relationship shouldn't feel like solving a puzzle. Yet many couples struggle to navigate the crucial stages of dating, relating, and mating effectively.
You're likely facing:
- Stage Confusion - You're unsure whether you're dating, relating, or mating, leading to mismatched expectations and premature commitments.
- Unclear Boundaries - Without explicit agreements about expectations and values, you're experiencing unnecessary conflicts and frustration.
- Communication Barriers - You struggle to express needs clearly, often falling into patterns of complaints rather than constructive requests.
This course teaches you how to identify and navigate each relationship stage with confidence. You'll learn practical communication tools like "Re-Speak" to express needs effectively and create clear agreements. Through mindfulness practices and stage-specific techniques, you'll discover how to build a stronger, more intimate partnership that grows more fulfilling over time.
What You Will Learn
"Understanding these three distinct relationship stages transforms how you connect, communicate, and commit. It's the roadmap every couple needs but rarely receives."
— Jake & Hannah Eagle, Relationship Experts
Stage Navigation
- Stage Recognition Framework - Learn clear indicators for each relationship stage to avoid mismatched expectations and premature commitments.
- Stage Transition Skills - Master the art of moving between stages naturally, ensuring both partners feel secure and aligned.
Communication Mastery
- Re-Speak Technique - Transform complaints into effective requests using our proven communication method for clearer understanding.
- Boundary Setting Practice - Create and communicate healthy boundaries that honor both partners' values and needs.
Partnership Building
- Agreement Creation - Develop explicit, mutual agreements that prevent misunderstandings and strengthen your connection.
- Mindfulness Tools - Apply stage-specific mindfulness practices to deepen intimacy and maintain relationship growth.
By course completion, you'll confidently navigate each relationship stage while creating clear agreements and maintaining healthy boundaries for a stronger partnership.
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Lessons and Classes
- 1. Introduction to this Course
- 2. Dating Overview
- 3. Dating, Relating, Mating
- 4. The 4 Aspects of Dating
- 5. The Dating Stage
- 6. Dating Chemistry & Styles
- 7. Dating FAQ
- 8. Mindfulness Dating Practice
- 9. Dating Do’s & Don’ts
- 10. Secret Communication Tool
- 11. Dating Summary
- 12. Intro to Relating
- 13. Relating Overview
- 14. The Relating Stage
- 15. Relating Values & Dreams
- 16. Relating FAQ
- 17. Mindfulness Relating Practice
- 18. Relating Do’s & Don’ts
- 19. Re-source Your Feelings
- 20. Making Agreements
- 21. Relating Summary
- 22. Intro to Mating
- 23. Mating Overview
- 24. The Mating Stage
- 25. From Relating to Mating
- 26. The 4 Aspects of Mating
- 27. Mating FAQ
- 28. Mindfulness Mating Practice
- 29. Mating Do’s & Don’ts
- 30. Turning Toward
- 31. Remove Praise & Blame
- 32. Breaking the Cycle of Conflict
- 33. Mating Summary
- 34. Companion Guide
Your Instructor

Jake & Hannah Eagle
Psychotherapist & Relationship Coach
With over 30 years of experience transforming relationships, Jake, a Licensed Professional Counselor, and Hannah, a Classical Homeopathy practitioner, have developed the revolutionary Dating-Relating-Mating® framework. Their unique approach has produced measurable results, including a documented 24% reduction in depression during their AWE Method® trials, which they've integrated into their relationship coaching.
Frustrated by the limitations of traditional therapy in Santa Fe, Jake and Hannah merged their distinct backgrounds to create something revolutionary. They discovered that by honoring the natural evolution of romantic partnerships while providing practical tools for each stage, couples could achieve lasting transformation. This realization led them to develop their ground-breaking framework, which they've since shared with thousands through Live Conscious® retreats across multiple continents.
Jake and Hannah's approach combines therapeutic rigor with holistic wellness perspectives, moving beyond problem-focused therapy to create practical "micro-interventions" that require minimal time investment. Their methodology helps couples overcome scarcity mentality and establish value-based compatibility through clear stage recognition and their signature Re-Speak communication technique.
Course FAQ
This course is designed for both singles and couples at any relationship stage, whether you're just starting to date or looking to deepen an existing partnership. Jake and Hannah's stage-based approach meets you exactly where you are, making it perfect for beginners while offering valuable insights for those with relationship experience.
The Stage Recognition Framework is especially valuable for singles, helping you identify where you are in any developing relationship and avoid common pitfalls. You'll learn to use the Re-Speak technique in dating scenarios and practice setting healthy boundaries from the start, making it easier to build strong foundations in future relationships.
While taking the course together can enhance your learning experience, it's designed to be effective even if only one partner participates. You'll learn communication tools and stage navigation skills that you can implement independently, and Jake and Hannah provide specific guidance on how to share these concepts with a partner who hasn't taken the course.
Many students report immediate improvements in their communication after learning the Re-Speak technique. However, mastering stage navigation and developing new relationship patterns typically takes 3-4 weeks of consistent practice. The course provides practical exercises you can implement right away while building deeper skills over time.
Unlike generic relationship advice, Jake and Hannah's framework specifically addresses how relationships evolve through distinct stages, each requiring different tools and approaches. The combination of their Stage Recognition Framework with practical tools like Re-Speak and mindfulness practices provides a unique, comprehensive system for building lasting relationships.
Absolutely! Understanding the three stages can help you identify areas where you might have rushed or skipped important development steps. The course's communication tools and agreement-creation practices are especially valuable for committed couples looking to strengthen their foundation and deepen their connection.
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