About This Course
Your Struggles, Solved
Sexual boredom isn't just frustrating—it threatens your deepest connection. Rekindling passion requires skills most of us were never taught, but are absolutely learnable.
You're likely facing:
- Sexual Disconnect - You're going through motions rather than experiencing genuine desire, making intimacy feel more like a chore than a pleasure.
- Body Confidence Issues - Self-consciousness about your appearance limits your willingness to try positions or activities that require vulnerability or exposure.
- Performance Pressure - Anxiety about pleasing your partner or "measuring up" is preventing you from being present and enjoying the experience.
This course teaches you practical techniques to communicate desires without awkwardness, rediscover your erotic energy through sensual exploration, and introduce playful creativity to your intimate moments. You'll learn how to replace routines with meaningful connection, build sexual confidence, and create a bedroom experience that reflects your authentic desires.
What You Will Learn
"Passion isn't just about new positions—it's about creating moments of genuine connection where both partners feel desired, confident, and free to explore their authentic desires."
— Luna Matatas, Sexuality Educator
Authentic Intimate Communication
- Desire Mapping Technique - Learn to articulate your needs and boundaries without awkwardness, transforming disconnection into meaningful sexual dialogue.
- Feedback Framework - Master the art of giving and receiving pleasure-focused guidance during intimacy, eliminating guesswork and performance anxiety.
Body Confidence & Pleasure
- Sensual Self-Appreciation - Develop practical exercises to embrace your body as a source of pleasure rather than judgment or insecurity.
- Vulnerability Rituals - Create safe spaces for gradual exposure and exploration that build confidence rather than triggering self-consciousness.
Creative Intimacy Skills
- Pleasure Sequencing - Discover how to build personalized intimate encounters that evolve beyond predictable routines into exciting experiences.
- Playful Experimentation - Learn low-pressure ways to introduce novelty and creativity that feel natural rather than performative or forced.
By the course's end, you'll transform mechanical routines into deeply connected encounters where both partners feel authentically desired, present, and playfully engaged.
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Lessons and Classes
- 1. Welcome to Banish Bedroom Boredom
- 2. Main Factors That Hold Us Back
- 3. Redefining the Idea of “Sexy”
- 4. Sharing Fantasies
- 5. Desire Dates
- 6. Sensuality Integration
- 7. The Power of Surprise
- 8. Delight & Tease
- 9. Dirty Talk
- 10. Power Roleplay
- 11. Sex Toys
- 12. More Banish Bedroom Boredom Tips
Your Instructor
Luna Matatas
Sex & Pleasure Educator
Luna Matatas has dedicated over 15 years to transforming bedroom experiences through her unique blend of pleasure education and empowerment. As a specialist in sexual confidence, body liberation, and rekindling desire, Luna's expertise has been sought by universities across North America and shared through her popular platform as host of The Plug Podcast.
Luna's passion for teaching about bedroom boredom began when she identified a crucial gap in traditional sex education that rarely addressed pleasure or desire. This realization inspired her to create frameworks like "Meditate Medicate Masturbate®" that blend activism with accessible pleasure education. Through her own journey of embracing body confidence and authentic sexuality, Luna discovered how these skills could transform not just intimate moments, but every aspect of life.
Luna's approach combines trauma-informed practices with playful techniques that reduce performance anxiety and build genuine confidence. She creates judgment-free zones where curiosities are celebrated, not shamed, making complex sexual concepts feel approachable through her warm, conversational style and practical wisdom. Her unique blend of humor and empowerment helps couples break through patterns while honoring each person's boundaries.
Course FAQ
Not at all! "Banish Bedroom Boredom" is designed for all experience levels, from couples who've been together for decades to those newer to sexual exploration. Luna has created exercises that meet you where you are, with step-by-step guidance that builds your confidence gradually. The focus is on reconnecting with yourself and your partner, not on performing advanced techniques.
Luna specifically addresses this common concern by providing gradual "Vulnerability Rituals" that ease you into new experiences. The course includes specific language scripts for the Desire Mapping Technique that make those first conversations much less intimidating. Many students find that starting with the guided self-appreciation exercises builds the confidence needed before involving a partner.
While taking the course together can deepen the experience, it's absolutely designed to be effective even if only one partner participates. The communication frameworks Luna teaches will help you share your learnings in a way that feels inviting rather than pressuring. Many students report their partners became curious and engaged after seeing positive changes in their approach to intimacy.
Many students report experiencing a shift in perspective after just completing the Desire Mapping exercise in module one. The practical nature of Luna's teachings means you can begin implementing small changes immediately. While deeper transformation develops over time, the Pleasure Sequencing technique often creates noticeable improvements in connection within the first few intimate encounters after learning it.
Luna's approach uniquely balances emotional connection with practical techniques—it's not just about new positions or superficial "spice." The Feedback Framework specifically addresses the communication gaps other programs overlook, while the focus on body confidence tackles the root causes of disconnection. Unlike programs that focus solely on novelty, this course builds sustainable skills for ongoing passion renewal.
That forced feeling comes from adding novelty without addressing the underlying connection, which is exactly what Luna's method prevents. The Playful Experimentation techniques are specifically designed to feel organic and authentic to your relationship, not performative. By starting with the Desire Mapping and building body confidence first, any new activities you try will come from genuine curiosity rather than pressure.
This is one of the most common situations Luna addresses in the course. The Authentic Intimate Communication section provides specific strategies for navigating desire discrepancies with compassion and creativity. You'll learn how to create experiences that honor both partners' boundaries while finding new ways to connect that don't require identical desire levels. Many students find this aspect of the course transformative for reducing tension around initiation.
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