Are you sick of propping yourself up into weird positions and using cushions from the couch to try and get your body into that perfect position? This is probably why you’re on the hunt for the perfect sex pillow. They’re the ultimate bedroom buddy so you can pull off positions that are usually out of reach.
And we’ve found the 5 best sex pillows on the market for newbies, couples who want to get kinky and for those looking to embark on a solo sex mission.
Our Top 5 Sex Pillow Recommendations
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Pros
- The absolute best pillow on the market for beginners because it isn’t too complicated to get a lot of positions nailed
- It comes with an instruction chart you can use to try a few new positions!
- Removable, machine-washable microfiber cover will feel great against your skin, and a moisture-resistant liner will protect the pillow’s foam
Cons
- The angle might be too large for some positions
- The foam can be too hard for some users, bordering on uncomfortable
Our #1 Rated
Pros
- The toy slot is really firm, so everything will stay in place
- The cover is washable and waterproof so you can keep everything clean no matter how dirty things get
- The BonBon is a cost-effective alternative to a Sybian!
Cons
- If you are short, the pillow may be too tall for you to take full advantage of. The whole pillow measures at 16 x 10 x 8 inches
- If your favorite dildo has balls, it may not fit into the toy hole
Our #2 Rated
Pros
- It can be used on the bed, on the floor… or anywhere else you can think of!
- It makes any size penis shine in the bedroom
- Because of its shape, if you own another Liberator sex pillows, you can combine them and use them both at the same time
Cons
- Some reviewers mention that the pillow could do with some handles on the side to make it even sturdier
- It’s quite a big pillow…. So you might need to free up some storage space to keep it if you’re not up to guests asking questions!
Our #3 Rated
Pros
- The Toughage is a super affordable option if you don’t know if you are willing to commit and pay for an expensive sex pillow
- It packs up easily so you can take it with you on dirty weekends
- It has a velvet covering, making it one of the more comfortable pillows on the market
Cons
- The hole for toys actually goes through the whole pillow. So instead of putting a toy at either end, you can only place one inside the pillow
- The toy hole is quite small, so if you want to use it with a larger dildo or one with balls, it won’t fit
Our #3 Rated
Pros
- It’s basically a 2-for-1 deal – the pillows can be used separately or together!
- Both pillows are stiff enough so you and your partner can hold your positions without getting uncomfortable
- The blindfold and handcuffs that come with the combo aren’t cheap knock-offs, their quality is just as good as the pillow combo
- The pillows are made with high-density foam and are housed in a washable, microfiber cover
Cons
- If you don’t set the two pillows up to join together correctly, they can slip apart
- At nearly $300, it’s one of the more expensive pillows out there.
Our #5 Rated
Pros
- It’s all electric, from the vibrations to the control panel, so the machine does a lot of the work for you
- It comes with lots of included attachments as well as a lot of attachments you can buy, so you’ll never get bored
- If you’re into BDSM and toys that are a bit more heavy duty, the Sybian is great as it also comes with clitoris stimulation attachments called Red Risers. You can also buy separate g-spot attachments or a even a finger attachment if you want to really put the Sybian through its paces.
Cons
- It’s very loud, especially on the higher settings
- The Sybian is a lot heavier than the other sex pillows on the list, so it’s not as versatile for switching up positions on a whim. It’s much more of a saddle than a pillow that you can move easily around in the bedroom.
- It’s expensive… coming it at $1249
Our #6 Rated
Why You Need a Sex Pillow in Your Life. Right Now.
Let’s set your bedroom scene. You’re propping yourself up using a regular pillow, trying to find the perfect position so your guy can hit your g-spot… but you just can’t get there.
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Does this sound familiar? That’s because regular pillows aren’t built like sex pillows.
Sex pillows are used to hold your weight and support you when things get steamy.
No matter if your reason for wanting a sex pillow is to make your missionary sex a little less predictable, or so he hits your g-spot every single time, each pillow is built for different needs.
Sex pillows are made so you can toss awkward sex aside and get into the position you actually want to be in.
Break It Down: What They’re Made Of
Sex pillows are built to hold your position and make even the most uncomfortable sex position… comfortable!
The majority of sex pillows on the market are made from high-density, memory foam.
They’re ultra durable, don’t lose their shape and can withstand even the roughest of activities.
Again, most sex pillows will also have a removable cover that can be washed for when things get… messy. These may be made from suede or microfiber for a comfier and sexy feel. Plus, some sex pillow companies like Liberator even allow you to customize the material and color of your sex pillow.
Now we know why they’re great, let’s pick your perfect sex pillow!
Let’s Get More Into Detail
Liberator 24-Inch Wedge
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This pillow is a perfect pillow for your first sex pillow. Whether you want to boost your butt up for anal or just make missionary a little less vanilla, this sex pillow can support your body better.
Other favorites like doggy-style can also be made 10x better with the 24-inch wedge, just put the pillow underneath you. It’ll give you the lift you need to stay on your hands and knees for longer, which equals an extended sex sesh.
Feel like creating your own positions? This pillow is super versatile, too. You’ll be able to come up with kinky creations with your partner, but all of the weight from your knees, back and neck will be taken off you.
The wedge is made from high-density foam so you won’t sink into your bed while things are ramping up. Plus, it also gives you a basic lift to help your partner hit your g-spot, too!
Is it your first time using a sex pillow? Try this: lie flat on your stomach and put the wedge the pillow underneath your stomach. Make sure your legs are together to push up your butt, then grab your partner and lay them on top of you. This position will give you all of the best bits of a deep thrust… without you bearing any of the weight!
Pros
- The absolute best pillow on the market for beginners because it isn’t too complicated to get a lot of positions nailed
- It comes with an instruction chart you can use to try a few new positions!
- Removable, machine-washable microfiber cover will feel great against your skin, and a moisture-resistant liner will protect the pillow’s foam
Cons
- The angle might be too large for some positions
- The foam can be too hard for some users, bordering on uncomfortable
Liberator BonBon
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Want to go on a sex mission by yourself? The Liberator BonBon is the perfect pillow for solo play.
One of the best parts about owning a sex pillow is, you don’t need somebody to use it with! The BonBon has a slot to place your favorite vibrator or dildo in, and it’s firm enough to hold them in place, no matter how crazy your solo session gets.
It’s great for masturbating, too. The arched support of the pillow will get rid of some of your aches or stiffness if you’ve got your legs spread for an extended period. That means your personal pleasure time can last even longer!
The pillow also works with most wand style toys and will store easily under your bed or closet.
Pros
- The toy slot is really firm, so everything will stay in place
- The cover is washable and waterproof so you can keep everything clean no matter how dirty things get
- The BonBon is a cost-effective alternative to a Sybian!
Cons
- If you are short, the pillow may be too tall for you to take full advantage of. The whole pillow measures at 16 x 10 x 8 inches
- If your favorite dildo has balls, it may not fit into the toy hole
Liberator Hipster
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This is the ultimate pillow to get your partner to hit your g-spot.
Because the Hipster is built a little different to the other pillows on the list and has a “curvier” shape to it, your body will be lifted both high and low… at the same time. It’s this unique shape of the pillow that gives your partner a better chance at hitting your g-spot.
Using the Hipster, you can adjust yourself to a comfortable, raised position and get your partner to enter you in a way you might’ve never felt before. And the deeper the penetration, the better chance there is of you reaching orgasm.
Another thing that makes the Hipster a great choice for couples is it doesn’t discriminate against penis size. Ever been having sex with your partner who has a slightly smaller penis that you actually want to feel? A pillow can get you there. Or on the flipside, you can use it to your advantage if your partner has a large penis to keep everything in place.
Pros
- It can be used on the bed, on the floor… or anywhere else you can think of!
- It makes any size penis shine in the bedroom
- Because of its shape, if you own another Liberator sex pillows, you can combine them and use them both at the same time
Cons
- Some reviewers mention that the pillow could do with some handles on the side to make it even sturdier
- It’s quite a big pillow…. So you might need to free up some storage space to keep it if you’re not up to guests asking questions!
Toughage Sex Pillow for Couples
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This pillow is a naughty one made especially for couples. It’s a great sex pillow if you and your partner are up for trying out a lot of different positions because of its versatile build.
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The Toughage has a toy hole that will fit anything with a 5cm diameter, meaning you can include your favorite sex toys in your new adventures, too. And because of its cylinder shape, it’s perfect for fuller figured women because it gives the perfect amount of support and lift that’s needed for a much deeper insertion in several positions.
Plus, the pillow can deflate and pack small for travel, and you can wash it in water.
Pros
- The Toughage is a super affordable option if you don’t know if you are willing to commit and pay for an expensive sex pillow
- It packs up easily so you can take it with you on dirty weekends
- It has a velvet covering, making it one of the more comfortable pillows on the market
Cons
- The hole for toys actually goes through the whole pillow. So instead of putting a toy at either end, you can only place one inside the pillow
- The toy hole is quite small, so if you want to use it with a larger dildo or one with balls, it won’t fit
Liberator Black Label Wedge/Ramp Combo
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This pillow is perfect for couples who like to create their own sex positions.
If you and your partner just love doing your own thing and create your own unique, quirky and kinky positions, the wedge/ramp combo is perfect for mixing up different positions and heights.
And you get more than the sex pillow. This one comes with two custom sex pillows, wrist & ankle cuffs as well as a blindfold and tethers.
The build of the pillow means neither you or your partner will be bearing any weight from your sex session, so you’ll both have more stamina to last longer. And because you’ll have two pillows instead of one, you can let your imagination really run wild when playing out your fantasies.
The wedge/ramp is also an awesome way to take your oral sex life to new levels. You’ll be able to lick and suck each other from angles you’ve never, ever thought of before.
It comes in two sizes: the 10-inch size is recommended for users under 5’9, and the 12-inch size is recommended for users taller than 5’9.
Pros
- It’s basically a 2-for-1 deal – the pillows can be used separately or together!
- Both pillows are stiff enough so you and your partner can hold your positions without getting uncomfortable
- The blindfold and handcuffs that come with the combo aren’t cheap knock-offs, their quality is just as good as the pillow combo
- The pillows are made with high-density foam and are housed in a washable, microfiber cover
Cons
- If you don’t set the two pillows up to join together correctly, they can slip apart
- At nearly $300, it’s one of the more expensive pillows out there.
Sybian
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The Sybian is like having a sex saddle in your bedroom. It’s perfect if you are looking for a toy to do a lot of the work for you.
Measuring in at 13.25 inches wide and 12.5 inches long, the Sybian has been around since the 70s and isn’t so much a sex pillow but a full-on sex machine.
It’s simple: jump on top of the saddle (which generates 6500rpm of vibrating power through your body), pick a silicon attachment to use on top of the saddle, and turn it on.
The Sybian comes with four C-flex attachments so you can pick and choose what kind of penetration you want depending on your mood. The remote control attached to the tool will also give you full control over just how many vibrations you want the machine to give to you!
Pros
- It’s all electric, from the vibrations to the control panel, so the machine does a lot of the work for you
- It comes with lots of included attachments as well as a lot of attachments you can buy, so you’ll never get bored
- If you’re into BDSM and toys that are a bit more heavy duty, the Sybian is great as it also comes with clitoris stimulation attachments called Red Risers. You can also buy separate g-spot attachments or a even a finger attachment if you want to really put the Sybian through its paces.
Cons
- It’s very loud, especially on the higher settings
- The Sybian is a lot heavier than the other sex pillows on the list, so it’s not as versatile for switching up positions on a whim. It’s much more of a saddle than a pillow that you can move easily around in the bedroom.
- It’s expensive… coming it at $1249
The Final Verdict
Choosing the perfect sex pillow for yourself is all about what you intend to do with it.
If you have never even used a sex pillow before, but you’re wanting to sass up your sex life in the bedroom, then start with the 24-inch wedge. But if you’re wanting to turn the heat up and lick, suck and fuck your partner for hours… it’s time to add the Liberator Bonbon combo to your cart!
No matter what pillow you go with… you are about to experience how great your sex life can be when your dream positions are finally do-able.
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