The Ultimate Guide on How to Make a Man With ED Hard

How to Make a Man With ED Hard
Written by Jenna Hall

Getting it up. When it comes to sexual pleasure, most of us crave a hard cock, ripe and ready to do the deed. But for some men, getting an erection and keeping an erection comes with a lot of pressure.

A flaccid willy can be frustrating for both partners, especially if your male lover is struggling with a disorder called Erectile Dysfunction Disorder. But it is important to remember that ED is not the end of the world. As a matter of fact, it’s quite the opposite.

Erectile Dysfunction Struggle

ED is a very common issue in a relationship.

Did you know that 1 in 4 men under the age of 40 struggles with ED? For some men, certain medical problems, from heart issues to diabetes to obesity, may lead to erectile dysfunction. For others, ED can simply be caused by emotional triggers. We will get into that later.

Either way, if your man is struggling to get his trouser snake randy for a juicy session in the bedroom and are looking for ways on how to make a man with ED hard, I have just the inspiration. Read on to uncover fun and kinky ways on how to stimulate a man with erectile dysfunction.

Step One: Have Empathy

The number one step you can take to please your man’s limp member is to have empathy.

If he can’t get hard, don’t let negativity bring him down even more (pun intended).

The next time your male partner can’t get it up, take a step back and tell him these three little words, “take your time”. At the end of the day, there really is no hurry.

On the same token, never rush into sex or get freaky when you are both feeling overtired or anxious. This is a surefire way to not only kill the mood but his boner as well. Choose a time in the day when there is nothing else going on.

Step Two: Your Beauty Is Making Him Shy

Are you harboring all the good looks in your relationship?

Apparently, Scientists from Spain’s University of Valencia have found that beautiful women can actually increase levels of cortisol in the male body.

And since stress is the main contributor to erectile dysfunction disorder it makes sense that your beauty could trigger his banana to go from ripe to mush in minutes.

Man with ED Problem

And while I am not suggesting that throwing a paper bag over your head will solve all your problems, just make sure you are constantly stroking his ego too. To do this, consistently give him compliments, and by all means, go ahead and worship his cock.

Step Three: Focus on Foreplay

Foreplay, especially kissing, licking and stroking are all delicious ways to heat things up.

You can also try using different moves on his package. Also remember to pay attention to his body language, remaining conscious of what strokes feel good for his manhood.

Couple overcoming ED

If his cock remains flaccid, don’t fret just yet. The goal for foreplay is to make him feel loved and safe. If you want to satisfy a man with ED, tease him, stroke him and take your time. Once he gets it up, his cock will thank you. Yes, in more ways than one.

Step Four: The Cock Ring of Fire

Sex with ED can be frustrating for both partners. But, since blood flow is one of the main reasons your man can’t get it up, a cock-ring may help.

Cock-rings are a practical way to get more blood flow to your man’s penis.

You can surprise your male lover with a cock-ring and treat them (and you) to a night full of thick and juicy erections. We like this assortment pack of cock-rings.

Oh, and one more thing. Make sure your man has already confided in you about his erectile dysfunction disorder before surprising him with a cock-ring. Randomly gifting your man a cock-ring could turn sour. That is if he isn’t already aware of his problem and thinks you are undermining his ability to keep it up.

Step Five: Get on Top

woman on top

Missionary or doggy, or any standing position will kill the vibe as well as his boner. That’s because missionary, doggy or knee positions rely on the large muscle groups of his thighs and glutes which generate more blood to these muscles and effectively steals blood away from the penis. For better boners, switch things up.

The best sex position for your man with ED is to climb on top.

Be it, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl or any position that involves your force. This will allow your man to relax which will help keep his cock nice and hard.

Think Outside the Cock

When trying to satisfy a man who is suffering from ED, I encourage you to think outside the box. Or the cock?

It’s a good idea to also keep in mind that his inability to keep his cock hard most likely has nothing to do with you.

So, seriously don’t get tripped up about worrying if you aren’t pretty enough, good enough etc. Also, remember that ED is common. The best part about ED?

It actually gives you and your partner a chance to be even more creative with your sex life.

About the author

Jenna Hall

Jenna discovered her passion for freelance writing in 2005 when she started a sex and relationship column for her university newspaper, The Tartan. The column eventually went viral, and shortly after she was recruited by Elle magazine to write as a Top Ten University Sex and Relationship Columnist for Ask E. Jean. In 2009, Jenna graduated from California State University, Dominguez Hills, earning a B.A in Communications with a concentration in Technical Writing and English. After graduation, she headed to Latin America to study to become a yoga teacher and was picked up by a Portland, Oregon-based activewear company to write for their blog on yoga, dating, and relationships. In 2014, Jenna permanently moved to South America, where she worked for one year at a local non-profit in Bolivia helping with fundraising and grant writing. She now writes and edits for several online publications on a variety of topics including health, relationships, travel, yoga, and fitness. She lives a simple life in Bolivia with her husband and son.

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